So, I've been taking care of my grandmother for a while and things are starting to get a little crazy.
My aunt rhonda passed away about 3 years ago and she was wealthy, leaving money for her brothers and sisters. The majority of her money went to my grandmother because she wanted to make sure she would be taken care of since she has quite a few health problems. My aunt tina and uncle mark are the beneficiaries over the money and it's tearing our family apart.
They had made promises in the beginning to my mother to get her to quit her job and move states. Providing a steady income for the hours she works, all bills included with her stay, and to split up the hours evenly so no one gets burnt out. Now they're withdrawing from the promises they made. There is no help from my uncle or aunt and they're leaving us to take care of gran, my mom 13 hours a day and myself 11. It seems we're being left to hang up high and dry. I can understand to a point because they have taken care of Gran for 13 years, because she had bad heath problems and they didn't think my mom would come so they could stick her in a nursing home. Now that she's here though they're doing everything they can it is so we'll get fed up and they can put my Gran in a nursing home and get on with their lives. If mom were to stay, they would have to give her the money since they are not involved with Gran anymore.
I swear money is the ROOT OF ALL EVIL! I really don't know how to approach the situation, or help my mother, since I'm the only one on her side. How do you deal with people like this? Ugh, I don't know what to do. Help!
My aunt rhonda passed away about 3 years ago and she was wealthy, leaving money for her brothers and sisters. The majority of her money went to my grandmother because she wanted to make sure she would be taken care of since she has quite a few health problems. My aunt tina and uncle mark are the beneficiaries over the money and it's tearing our family apart.
They had made promises in the beginning to my mother to get her to quit her job and move states. Providing a steady income for the hours she works, all bills included with her stay, and to split up the hours evenly so no one gets burnt out. Now they're withdrawing from the promises they made. There is no help from my uncle or aunt and they're leaving us to take care of gran, my mom 13 hours a day and myself 11. It seems we're being left to hang up high and dry. I can understand to a point because they have taken care of Gran for 13 years, because she had bad heath problems and they didn't think my mom would come so they could stick her in a nursing home. Now that she's here though they're doing everything they can it is so we'll get fed up and they can put my Gran in a nursing home and get on with their lives. If mom were to stay, they would have to give her the money since they are not involved with Gran anymore.
I swear money is the ROOT OF ALL EVIL! I really don't know how to approach the situation, or help my mother, since I'm the only one on her side. How do you deal with people like this? Ugh, I don't know what to do. Help!