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jbrooks5912

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I need serious help with this one. And giving it to God shall be done.

You see my heart is broken, not as you think but something is happening at work. Something bad.

My promotion is still planned, everything is ok on the home front. But there is this guy who has been showing a whole lot of resentment and anger against me for whatever reason.

He has been trying to get alot of people on his side against me, and he has cussed me and said that supervisors were talking bad about me and that i make myself look bad.

It was bugging ke at first, but then i realized he started getting very tired too quickly.

He was abouy to fall asleep on the line. I started ignoring him that made him worse.

I talked to my supervisor and he threw a box my way with force. Then he started to fall asleep.

After i cleaned up and got everything done to go home, it dawned on me, he is seriously in trouble with drugs.

He is in hatred not at me but because of life. Then my heart sank i wanted to cry very much so.

I said to myself oh no no no why i mean why would he do this and just got released from prison?

Idk, i talked to my supervisor i said something is wrong it is not me because the thing is i did nothing wrong.

She said its ok he will be moved. She heard how he was towards me.

Family, please do me a favor. Pray for him i dont know his name but pray.

He needs God and soon God will tell me how and in what way to help him.

I just dont get it i really dont why mess up your very life with stuff that causes you problems in the first place??

There is a deeper problem because when i am around him i sense evil and drugs are evil.

My heart goes out to him please pray for him.
 

Locoponydirtman

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#2
Stop worrying about what others are doing. Tend your own business.

and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life and attend to your own business and work with your hands, just as we commanded you, so that you will behave properly toward outsiders and not be in any need.
1 Thessalonians 4:11‭-‬12 NASB
 
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jbrooks5912

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#3
Stop worrying about what others are doing. Tend your own business.

and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life and attend to your own business and work with your hands, just as we commanded you, so that you will behave properly toward outsiders and not be in any need.
1 Thessalonians 4:11‭-‬12 NASB
So you say when this dude is putting me in danger i should leave it alone?

Honestly i get what you are saying but God placed a heart in me that cant turn people who has problems away.

I haft to be humble and i must pray on this. I can not refuse because my concience would drive me crazy.

So as to your advice i respect it but i must follow what The Lord guides me to do.

In respects He says to turn the other cheek, then explains so much more i will mot go into right now.

The most important thing He said is to love thy neighbor, He never said to kick them to the side.
 

Locoponydirtman

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Oct 9, 2018
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#4
You have already informed your supervisor, and she is going to or has moved him already.

Have you not heard;
"Do not give what is holy to dogs, and do not throw your pearls before swine, or they will trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.
Matthew 7:6 NASB
So you will ignor scripture because of your feelings? Sweet, so then when he does hurt you (he has already shown aggression toward you when he threw a box at you) then what?
I gave you 2 scriptures now. both say leave him alone. Show me one that says to continue to pursue them when they reject you.
 
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jbrooks5912

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#5
You have already informed your supervisor, and she is going to or has moved him already.

Have you not heard;
"Do not give what is holy to dogs, and do not throw your pearls before swine, or they will trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.
Matthew 7:6 NASB
So you will ignor scripture because of your feelings? Sweet, so then when he does hurt you (he has already shown aggression toward you when he threw a box at you) then what?
I gave you 2 scriptures now. both say leave him alone. Show me one that says to continue to pursue them when they reject you.
Lol one i never said i spoke to this dude and secondly, to pray for him is what i am guided to do. And if God wants me to speak to this guy He ill let me know as He always does.

Prayer is the answer here, qnd q friend is what he needs all i will haft to do is be cool let him do whatever not talk abiut him in any negative way and simply ask how his day is.

You clearly dont get it i think because scripture says something i believe in it all but also God places people into your life for a reason friend.

And maybe all this guy needs is a careing ear.
 
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jbrooks5912

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#6
Lol one i never said i spoke to this dude and secondly, to pray for him is what i am guided to do. And if God wants me to speak to this guy He ill let me know as He always does.

Prayer is the answer here, qnd q friend is what he needs all i will haft to do is be cool let him do whatever not talk abiut him in any negative way and simply ask how his day is.

You clearly dont get it i think because scripture says something i believe in it all but also God places people into your life for a reason friend.

And maybe all this guy needs is a careing ear.
I dont loke this phone at times lol anyway i need to remove this auto correct stuff more and more.

Iphones are crazy. But i do believe what God says in His word. I also believe in being someone who cares for others becayse that is what God has done!

To be Christ-like and not Worldly-like that is my motto.
 
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jbrooks5912

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#7
To have compassion on peole is what GOD HAS DONE! And i refuse to change my compassion for people because you tell me to leave it alone. Not mad just clearly stating my side i dont get mad easy.

Maybe confused easy but mad no. But i am not confused about this one bit.

I rather be caring and pray for someone that to be silent and show i dont care.

If Jesus had that adutude we would not BE SAVED TODAY!!!
 
#8
There's a "joke" that goes: "How many psychiatrists does it take to change a light bulb?" The answer is? "Only ONE!" "But, the lightbulb has to want to change!"

Lot of wisdom in that!

I would imagine this guy already sees how happy you are at work. So, he probably already knows you are a Christian. Or, at least something, that the evil in him is sensing you, sensing its presence in your co-worker.

If what this guy is doing "on the line" is putting you in physical danger? You may not have a lot of time before he succeeds!

I'd try and talk to him. See, if, or how willing he is in conversating. If he isn't, which will more n likely be the case, just let him know, if he wants to talk, you'll be there. Or, if, and/or when he wants to change? "Come see me!" :)
 
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jbrooks5912

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#9
There's a "joke" that goes: "How many psychiatrists does it take to change a light bulb?" The answer is? "Only ONE!" "But, the lightbulb has to want to change!"

Lot of wisdom in that!

I would imagine this guy already sees how happy you are at work. So, he probably already knows you are a Christian. Or, at least something, that the evil in him is sensing you, sensing its presence in your co-worker.

If what this guy is doing "on the line" is putting you in physical danger? You may not have a lot of time before he succeeds!

I'd try and talk to him. See, if, or how willing he is in conversating. If he isn't, which will more n likely be the case, just let him know, if he wants to talk, you'll be there. Or, if, and/or when he wants to change? "Come see me!" :)
Lol exactly!! I wear my cross necklas alot at work and im not afraid too at all.

You get my point friend and u see my meaning thats good 🙃

God Bless!!
 
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jbrooks5912

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#10
Out of respect to the person who recieved this email i am posting here that i wrote i took some things out. Buy anyway its an update on this guy and i am sure she wont mind i share this part *i hope not anyway lol* but anyway God is good and He is working in a mighty way!!


Work today was wild, and trust me it was good.

Everything went well to a solid degree. At first i said i know that you are going through alot. He shook his head and kept silent. I know very well the things you are going through.





I know that you just got out. But remember i am not against you. This dude is black and he wants to be all gangsta.





Anyway, he kept silent then explained he spent a year in jail and is facing 6 more for guns and al.





I said dude and i put my finger on his arm. If you have God in your life you wont haft yo worry about all that.





That guns and drugs are not worth it. I see you like a girl here right? He said she cool. I said look i know u like her so think of this ok? She is cool and u like her it shows but dont mess it up by beimg stupid because man when u have a woman that loves you why mess that up with homies?





My supervisor thanked me for talking to him apparently she did not jnow im a Christian. But she explained she is too. We get along great and i told him look man alot of peoppe in here is Christian and i dont want to see you go down over something stupid.





Hos anger melted away big time and we got along like best friends. Love is kind, love is patient.





Anothet supervisor came up to me as he was leaving i was listening to my mysic in the hall way. He said man i like it youre always in a good mood i held onto his hand in that shake.





I showed him my cross around my kneck and i said thos is why homie. And he smiled.








God is working on me, in a very big way. I used to be off in balance but now it seems im in a more direct path to rightioisness than ever before.

So if i would have listened to some who said to leave it alone then this guy would still be hassling me instead of treating me like a friend.

I have gained my brother

The end