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It is possible that you are overreacting because of past hurts that have built up that haven't been processed. It is vital in marriage to not stuff pain. There are many terms for it but one is 'volcano building".......stuff, stuff, stuff then watch her blow into a crazy cycle. The little things add up over time. It's a big reason why 50 plus percent of marriages fail.
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There is nothing wrong with you asking your husband to use the ad blocker. It may not have crossed his mind to do so. Explain to him that it would give you peace of mind.
Also, go to the Lord Jesus in prayer and ask Him to give you wisdom concerning this situation. The Lord is faithful and will reveal the truth. Peace to you in Jesus' name, sister.
Also, go to the Lord Jesus in prayer and ask Him to give you wisdom concerning this situation. The Lord is faithful and will reveal the truth. Peace to you in Jesus' name, sister.
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I mean no disrespect to anyone here but it seems in this community people skim right over the top of the pain.
If I was in your circumstance I would say something like this.....Sweetie, my intention is not to be judgmental or condemning or to put you on the defensive...I am just really struggling with something that I would like to share with you. When there are things between us, I feel disconnected from you and that is another pain on top of the one I want to tell you. If now is not a good time would you please let me know when it is. It is important too me and I love you very much....... Then wait for an answer....what do you think he might say?
If I was in your circumstance I would say something like this.....Sweetie, my intention is not to be judgmental or condemning or to put you on the defensive...I am just really struggling with something that I would like to share with you. When there are things between us, I feel disconnected from you and that is another pain on top of the one I want to tell you. If now is not a good time would you please let me know when it is. It is important too me and I love you very much....... Then wait for an answer....what do you think he might say?
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I agree with you, brother Sirk. "We do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all things as we are, yet without sin. Therefore let us draw near with confidence to the throne of grace so that we can receive mercy and find grace to help us in time of need."
Jesus understands and cares about our pain. You have spoken wisdom and I believe this can be an opportunity for our sister and her husband to strengthen their relationship. I pray in Jesus' name the Lord would be glorified in their lives together and that this would be a gracious miracle that God would work out together for good.
Jesus understands and cares about our pain. You have spoken wisdom and I believe this can be an opportunity for our sister and her husband to strengthen their relationship. I pray in Jesus' name the Lord would be glorified in their lives together and that this would be a gracious miracle that God would work out together for good.
