I Don't Like Men

[7seasrekeyed]

What a terrible thread to post on a christian forum.
Prayer request is where this op needed to go.
How can you have love of God and say this?
JMO......
Maybe another agenda here.

well where should she post it then?

in an atheist forum?

Christians need to stop trying to give the idea they are without reproach

I agree the thread is well past the intent if it ever had one, but discussion is and can be cathartic, but accusatory is really all it has turned out to be

and now I suppose this response will warrant the x

that's just too stinkin bad

at this point, I would believe the op to be far worse than the men she avows she hates

but that is apparently not something she wishes to deal with

and further, why is it she cannot find the women's forum if she states she donates?

there is so much anger here and you can't get past it

 

[7seasrekeyed]

to the op:

the best answer for you seems to be that if and when you are ready to be honest and honestly want help there is probably some help to be had for you

but I would suggest you consult a professional who will not put up with your games

yes yes I know

a big fat x no doubt childish

 

[LordsHandmaiden]

well where should she post it then?

in an atheist forum?

Christians need to stop trying to give the idea they are without reproach

I agree the thread is well past the intent if it ever had one, but discussion is and can be cathartic, but accusatory is really all it has turned out to be

and now I suppose this response will warrant the x

that's just too stinkin bad

at this point, I would believe the op to be far worse than the men she avows she hates

but that is apparently not something she wishes to deal with

and further, why is it she cannot find the women's forum if she states she donates?

there is so much anger here and you can't get past it

well where should she post it then?

in an atheist forum?

Christians need to stop trying to give the idea they are without reproach

I agree the thread is well past the intent if it ever had one, but discussion is and can be cathartic, but accusatory is really all it has turned out to be

and now I suppose this response will warrant the x

that's just too stinkin bad

at this point, I would believe the op to be far worse than the men she avows she hates

but that is apparently not something she wishes to deal with

and further, why is it she cannot find the women's forum if she states she donates?

there is so much anger here and you can't get past it

😂😂😂😂!
SHE GAVE ME THE BIG RED X!
Who cares, I agree with you 7!
Something besides fish stinks in Denmark!

 

[7seasrekeyed]

😂😂😂😂!
SHE GAVE ME THE BIG RED X!
Who cares, I agree with you 7!
Something besides fish stinks in Denmark!

and just think

she still has the same 'problem' and is possibly more angry than when she started

so she just hurts herself

like a child stomping it's feet and holding its breath or touching the hot stove they were told would hurt them

I never earned an x before in this thread so I feel that I have finally been accepted

X

 

[7seasrekeyed]

here sweetie

this could be what you are really looking for

 

[LordsHandmaiden]

Maybe a RETURN to the ALTAR OF PRAYER is needed!

What we GIVE to Him;He helps us with.

 

[7seasrekeyed]

Maybe a RETURN to the ALTAR OF PRAYER is needed!

What we GIVE to Him;He helps us with.

I have sorted out some very deep issues with God...misandry (or the hatred of men by women) not being one but I have certainly had my share of problems with men

ever since the garden, right?

every single man I ever knew has let me down. I have let men down

but I am pretty sure it is a 60/40 in my favor

 

[7seasrekeyed]

came back to add, on the serious side, I have a bad weakness in that I will ask for help from people when really only God can give me what I need and want

and this is not to say that people cannot help because they certainly can

however, it seems God has more than a little patience with me in showing me He is the answer

I am very independent on the outside, but very marshmellowy deep inside

and that is where I need the help

from God

 

[VineyardsOfEngedi]

This is not about me being in a relationship or wanting to be in a relationship. This is about humanity being indifferent, cold, hostile, condescending, rude, haughty and so many other things people tend to be towards others and even more so on broken people, like most have been on here. And no I did not say everyone so before anyone says I put everyone in a basket, read again. And lol all the remarks are coming from Christian brothers and sisters lol 😂.

I do not nor did I make anyone go on a tangent about why I don't like men (which really if anyone read my post would see it is also directed towards women) by not stating specifics, Ben. Many have assumed and were quick to call me many things based on a very honest truthful statement I made. The lack of specifics doesn't justify the behavior from many that responded. I am in no way upset or childish by marking with an x to statements or comments I don't agree with? Lol why the hell are they there then? People are full of it.

I think everyone can agree that humanity is vile, people's heart is so consumed in being superior and looking down on others and no it's not about me complaining about my experiences. Everyone has either been looked down or looked down on others.

Lol feel free to carry on.

 

[LordsHandmaiden]

TRUE COLORS!

 

[7seasrekeyed]

This is not about me being in a relationship or wanting to be in a relationship. This is about humanity being indifferent, cold, hostile, condescending, rude, haughty and so many other things people tend to be towards others and even more so on broken people, like most have been on here. And no I did not say everyone so before anyone says I put everyone in a basket, read again. And lol all the remarks are coming from Christian brothers and sisters lol 😂.

I do not nor did I make anyone go on a tangent about why I don't like men (which really if anyone read my post would see it is also directed towards women) by not stating specifics, Ben. Many have assumed and were quick to call me many things based on a very honest truthful statement I made. The lack of specifics doesn't justify the behavior from many that responded. I am in no way upset or childish by marking with an x to statements or comments I don't agree with? Lol why the hell are they there then? People are full of it.

I think everyone can agree that humanity is vile, people's heart is so consumed in being superior and looking down on others and no it's not about me complaining about my experiences. Everyone has either been looked down or looked down on others.

Lol feel free to carry on.

since I have said less than nothing regarding any relationship you may or may not have or may or may not want, why bring it up? I can read and I know what has been said here. you are quick to pounce but slow to listen

his is about humanity being indifferent, cold, hostile, condescending, rude, haughty and so many other things people tend to be towards others and even more so on broken people

that sounds like you actually. just a simple observation. how do you know who has or who has not been possibly in a worse position than you believe yourself to be in?

people tried to help you but I don't think you want help. it seems you would prefer reinforcements for your position but BECAUSE people here are trying to answer in a Christian manner, not for lack of Christian ideals, BUT BECAUSE OF THEM, you are not accepting, so perhaps some of your problems lie in actuality between yourself and God

you are making so much noise you cannot hear an answer should one be given

then again, you have not actually happened to have posted what the difficulty is

most women have probably hated men or at least one man, at some time in their life but have realized that the man who encouraged such emotion wasn't worth the wear and tear on a soul that can do to a person

whatever your difficulty, some here have probably far surpassed it and come out on the other side

I do not nor did I make anyone go on a tangent about why I don't like men (which really if anyone read my post would see it is also directed towards women) by not stating specifics

oh really? I must have missed that. you specifically do not state specifics and hope we have somehow graduated magna cum laude in mind reading or at the very least honorable mention

well now I suppose we have enough to go on? perhaps some brave soul will step up and question why it is you say you hate men when actually your gripe is with other women?

perhaps you are so beautiful women lie about you behind your back to sabotage you...or perhaps you are so ugly they make fun of you...or perhaps your boyfriend was spirited away by a devious wench who winked at you while strolling off with Henry

I maintain you just want attention at the moment

so you have fun then. maybe buy yourself a lollipop

 

[7seasrekeyed]

TRUE COLORS!

hates women

loves men

LOL!


...nice paint job by the way

 

[7seasrekeyed]

just in case

 

[melita916]

btw, if a new lady member doesn't see the ladies forum yet, you can contact a moderator. i don't know what the rule is as far as how long you should be a member first before having access to that specific forum.

the truth is we all disappoint others, and they will disappointed us.

 

[Susanna]

The back and forth between the posters is getting toxic in this thread. Why don’t y’all just stop addressing each other?

 

[BenFTW]

This is not about me being in a relationship or wanting to be in a relationship. This is about humanity being indifferent, cold, hostile, condescending, rude, haughty and so many other things people tend to be towards others and even more so on broken people, like most have been on here. And no I did not say everyone so before anyone says I put everyone in a basket, read again. And lol all the remarks are coming from Christian brothers and sisters lol 😂.

I do not nor did I make anyone go on a tangent about why I don't like men (which really if anyone read my post would see it is also directed towards women) by not stating specifics, Ben. Many have assumed and were quick to call me many things based on a very honest truthful statement I made. The lack of specifics doesn't justify the behavior from many that responded. I am in no way upset or childish by marking with an x to statements or comments I don't agree with? Lol why the hell are they there then? People are full of it.

I think everyone can agree that humanity is vile, people's heart is so consumed in being superior and looking down on others and no it's not about me complaining about my experiences. Everyone has either been looked down or looked down on others.

Lol feel free to carry on.

I would kindly suggest that you don’t let the evils of this world cause you to be bitter. You hate unrighteousness, as does the Lord. Good. But don’t let that evil make your heart grow cold. Rather, let it move you with compassion for there is a better way, and that is walking in the light. Being in Christ.

I am sorry if I was too harsh or forward in my responses to you.

 

[Locoponydirtman]

well where should she post it then?

in an atheist forum?

Christians need to stop trying to give the idea they are without reproach

I agree the thread is well past the intent if it ever had one, but discussion is and can be cathartic, but accusatory is really all it has turned out to be

and now I suppose this response will warrant the x

that's just too stinkin bad

at this point, I would believe the op to be far worse than the men she avows she hates

but that is apparently not something she wishes to deal with

and further, why is it she cannot find the women's forum if she states she donates?

there is so much anger here and you can't get past it

How dare you be all logical and intelligent. Don't you know you are supposed to emot' all over this thread.
Lol

 

[Locoponydirtman]

I imagine that this thread reflects how she interacts with people regularly, and probably reflects why she is so disappointed and disgusted and all those negative things with men. They don't til toe around her feelings enough nor can they guess what's got her upset the majority of the time. They eventually give up and walk away. A codependent trying to have a relationship with healthy guys.

 

[Butterflyyy]

well where should she post it then?

in an atheist forum?

Christians need to stop trying to give the idea they are without reproach

I agree the thread is well past the intent if it ever had one, but discussion is and can be cathartic, but accusatory is really all it has turned out to be

and now I suppose this response will warrant the x

that's just too stinkin bad

at this point, I would believe the op to be far worse than the men she avows she hates

but that is apparently not something she wishes to deal with

and further, why is it she cannot find the women's forum if she states she donates?

there is so much anger here and you can't get past it

Bro.... remember when you said it ilks you when somieone just comes on here and starts having opinions in the middle of a conversation etc?
Listen... the op.... it's not good all this... she has obviously been very hurt by someone, and right now I don't think it's wise, for the sake of her mental health, to treat her like this.... it says bear with one another in love... I'm sure the Lord would have us prayer for her and try to give her wise counsel... I realise the title Ian provoking but it's where she is at seemingly because of abuse...
please guys take care of each other on here... it's a responsibility😔

 

[Butterflyyy]

I imagine that this thread reflects how she interacts with people regularly, and probably reflects why she is so disappointed and disgusted and all those negative things with men. They don't til toe around her feelings enough nor can they guess what's got her upset the majority of the time. They eventually give up and walk away. A codependent trying to have a relationship with healthy guys.

I imagine she has suffered domestic abuse