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He does have a right. You are underage and you're drinking. It's against the law and so I can imagine why your dad is upset. Getting drunk is losing control of your mind in a different, but similar way as getting high. Just because he told you not to do one thing doesn't mean you do everything else besides that. You are his son and he does have authority over you.
Let me get this straight - you're 13, smoking and drinking, against your father's wishes, and those of the law, and you can't quite figure out why he's upset with you? Ok, forget that, obviously his wants mean nothing. Bigger question is, why at the age of 13 do you want to go drinking and getting high? There's something wrong there, you shouldn't have to be looking for such "escapes" at that (or any) age. So I guess the question isn't so much why is dad angry, but why do you feel the need to do the things that make him that way?
W
So if someone doesn't want you to do what you like to do you hate them? That will not get anywhere but in trouble.
What will you do when you need a job to make a living? I assure you you will not always agree with you boss.
Besides, as long as your parents do not ask you to do things that are bad for you, they are an authority to be obeyed.
What will you do when you need a job to make a living? I assure you you will not always agree with you boss.
Besides, as long as your parents do not ask you to do things that are bad for you, they are an authority to be obeyed.
Something's wrong with this picture.
You are a juvenile delinquent who has access to the internet?
If I had a 13 year-old, which I might,
he wouldn't have the opportunity to be getting high or drunk,
and on the off chance he did and got caught,
he sure wouldn't have access to any devices with which he could get online.
Something's very wrong here.
This is either a totally out of control family situation,
in which case the police should be involved,
or your whole persona is a hoax.
You are a juvenile delinquent who has access to the internet?
If I had a 13 year-old, which I might,
he wouldn't have the opportunity to be getting high or drunk,
and on the off chance he did and got caught,
he sure wouldn't have access to any devices with which he could get online.
Something's very wrong here.
This is either a totally out of control family situation,
in which case the police should be involved,
or your whole persona is a hoax.
If my dad tells me not to smash the TV with a bat, but then I smash the computer, his phone, and the Xbox with a bat, did I really respect his general command to not smash things with a bat? Sure, "But I didn't smash the TV!" is a technically valid (though weak) statement, but it's far from respecting the undertone of the command.
"i mis him evary single day and i swere to god that by the end of my life im gona hav made him proud and im gona live this life best as i can for him. i love u riley ur the only resun y i stil got hope ur the best brothar i cud evar hav and evan death cant stop u caring bout me rite"
The words between quotation marks, are your own words, my friend, and they are very beautiful and sincere.
Keep your promise to your brother, don`t mess up your life! Alcohol and drugs are demons that eat your soul! This is not a metaphor, there are real demons behind those two!
Look at this guy in the image below:
See that dreadful emptyness on his face? From a handsome guy, with intelligent eyes, he become a zombie! These are the "benefits" of drugs.
With a lot of concerning,
Simona
The words between quotation marks, are your own words, my friend, and they are very beautiful and sincere.
Keep your promise to your brother, don`t mess up your life! Alcohol and drugs are demons that eat your soul! This is not a metaphor, there are real demons behind those two!
Look at this guy in the image below:
See that dreadful emptyness on his face? From a handsome guy, with intelligent eyes, he become a zombie! These are the "benefits" of drugs.
With a lot of concerning,
Simona
S
hi my dear, obey ur dad, he is telling u what is right, one day u will realize, don't hate him , learn to love him.
18 years i wasn't close to my dad, but a few days i learn to love him, i see the love and the care he has for me, so obey ur dad and love him
God sees ur heart, LOVE is one of the commandment the more important
are u a child of God? then why hate is in ur heart?
18 years i wasn't close to my dad, but a few days i learn to love him, i see the love and the care he has for me, so obey ur dad and love him
God sees ur heart, LOVE is one of the commandment the more important are u a child of God? then why hate is in ur heart?
J
He is telling you because he wants to you LIVE and stay out of jail:
Ephesians 6
6 Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. [SUP]2 [/SUP]“Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise— [SUP]3 [/SUP]“so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.”
Keep going the way you are going and your days on earth will be numbered, especially your days of freedom.
What will it take for you to realize this is self-destructive behavior?
And would it take your father's death for you to realize the foolishness of titling anything with the words "I hate dad"?
Ephesians 6
6 Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. [SUP]2 [/SUP]“Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise— [SUP]3 [/SUP]“so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.”
Keep going the way you are going and your days on earth will be numbered, especially your days of freedom.
What will it take for you to realize this is self-destructive behavior?
And would it take your father's death for you to realize the foolishness of titling anything with the words "I hate dad"?
Our heavenly Father corrects us, should we then hate Him because He did something we don't like.
The love of a parent corrects their children. If they didn't love you, or care, they wouldn't have said anything.
It is not the father who should repent and ask for forgiveness, but the child who lacks understanding.
It sounds like he has already spoiled the son, who acts like a brat because he didn't get to do the things he wanted to do, which is something that was against the law and harmful to the son.
Shame on your father for yelling at you.
The love of a parent corrects their children. If they didn't love you, or care, they wouldn't have said anything.
It is not the father who should repent and ask for forgiveness, but the child who lacks understanding.
It sounds like he has already spoiled the son, who acts like a brat because he didn't get to do the things he wanted to do, which is something that was against the law and harmful to the son.
Shame on your father for yelling at you.