I miss my friend

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JFSurvivor

JFSurvivor

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I had a friend named Ally. She was awesome! She helped me through some really tough situations. I recently posted a song in another thread about paitence and I got emotional because my friend Ally was the one who originally showed it to me.

We had a falling out because her sister comitted sucide and the church she was going to was not being supportive. She would be in tears one minuye because of how they treated her and then defending them every time I told her that she should leave.

It hurt me to watch them treat her so bad and then she just changed. I would come to her for support and she began to act like the people at the church. I miss the old Ally more than ever. I recently got accepted in to an honors society at my community college, the same one she did (she doesn't go to my school any more) and I wanna show her where I am and how far I've come and I want her to know that this is in part due to the love and support she gave. :'(
 
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Well...is there any way you can try to get in contact with her? The most you could get out of it is either a response of whether she'd like to talk to you or not or none at all.

Sometimes people change because of situations, which suicide brings a huge impact on everyone around the person who's done it. Being mistreated to top that off of it more than likely made her lash out as the result. Sorry for yours (and hers) loss.
 
JFSurvivor

JFSurvivor

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JustAnotherUser said:
Well...is there any way you can try to get in contact with her? The most you could get out of it is either a response of whether she'd like to talk to you or not or none at all.

Sometimes people change because of situations, which suicide brings a huge impact on everyone around the person who's done it. Being mistreated to top that off of it more than likely made her lash out as the result. Sorry for yours (and hers) loss.
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Thanks. I did reach out to her and we're talking. :) the post was more of a "I need to get this out now or I'll explode into tears" so I posted it and things are better. Thanks! :)
 
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