I agree with all the fellas in saying "fornication is a sin." It's true and we all know it. We all say things to make ourselves feel better. Kissing is meant for your other half/spouse. This affection is the affection of lovers that are right in God's eyes, and is meant only for a husband and wife. Western culture has portrayed it as ok, but it's wrong I tell you. a kiss leads to sinful nature if you're not married, and it may be with the wrong person. How special would it be if you find out one day that that kiss you take wasn't meant for the woman/man that was made especially for you? It's hard, I know it, I live it. I'm engaged and It's a challenge to not kiss my fiancée. As much as I want to believe she's mine, She's not mine yet, and she constantly reminds me. I can't wait 'til I marry her though!
anyways back to the issue. If you're planning to marry her, I don't want to say that it's ok, but I'll tell you it will happen. It's a struggle because you have strong feelings for the one that you love, but if you can abstain from it, do so. If you can't, then marry her. The bible teaches that if you have a burning desire for him/her, it's better to marry than burn with a passion. For all the guys saying, "give her a passionate kiss!" uhhh.... yeah. No.