Just need christian freinds that are going through divorce.

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Consumed

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We read in Davids life that the enemy come in and took everyone's wives and children, they all turned against David and blamed him for it. David encouraged himself in the Lord, and took back what the enemy had stolen. We have all committed adultery against the Lord one way or another, He loves us and took us back, that's the example we "Christians" I feel should follow, that when even a spouse errs forgiveness is abounding. Yes Jesus said one could be divorced over adultery, the wounded hearts who rather wallow in their misery instead of seeking His face. We all make a vow when we marry, love honor and cherish, for better or worse, why when thing go worse how quickly we forget.
I encourage you brother, if you love her don't let the enemy steal her away. Stand on your vows, be silent and patient and believe. Trials and tribulations we will always have, it's where we turn to when they come, to ourselves and ways or to Jesus and His. Let patience have it's perfect work, wait on the Lord for He might seem slow at times but that's to teach us it has a perfect work in us.
Again if you love her believe, Ps 37:4
 
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tornblue

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Ramon said:
This makes me really upset honestly. If I can be honest.

I think the wisest thing is not to divorce. My friend I see this divorce thing increasing and increasing, because people are growing colder and colder. But every time I see this I see the Love of God. The Church is like your wife in a way. So I am reminded of the Church. God sits and waits for her to return. It is the worse feeling that my soul cannot understand. The waiting for a rebellious wife to return. And who will wipe away her shame?

Might this be a test to see if you have known what unconditional love means? We, who were also the same, as unfaithful wives, and we went and had our affairs with other gods, and sin, were drawn to God by his love. In that we were unfaithful he still loved us and died for us, not yet having that perfect desire of us. This, I believe is the greatest test of a husband. God has graced us so much that he gave us these things to demonstrate himself. Now, you are, to your wife, Like Jesus Christ himself. You take the role that Jesus does in your family. But Jesus takes the role above you.

Now, when you look at Jesus, remember that what he is doing is for the Church, and that Satan is that other man that people want to lust after. But Jesus is the one who came and died for her, even being mocked and shamed by her as if he was in the wrong. How patient is our Lord then? This is a great test. I pray you pass with FLYING COLORS!! May Jesus bless you.

p.s It is called longsuffering
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cec4me... Ramon is right.. if you love her, take the pain as jesus take the pain of our sins... and after that you will live... Arise!!!
 
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cec4me

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Thanks, Stephen I am growing in the Lord so much during this trial. Keep praying for me. God Bless
 
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