Looking for Male input/advise on my marriage

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2ndTimeIsTheCharm

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Five years and no resolution? Looks like you are the one at fault for hangin' around.
Please go easy on her! She's stuck with a deadbeat husband she can't leave.

Romans 12:15 Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.
 

Cameron143

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Speaking the truth is necessary for Christians because it is the truth that sets us free. But speaking the truth void of love can easily distort the sound of truth and make it just seem like a clanging note.
There are some incredibly learned people on this site. But much of that learning is muffled by the tone of its delivery. The message is swallowed up in the condescending language of the messenger.
Surely we can take a moment before we answer and consider that we are responding to a person made in the image of God.
 

2ndTimeIsTheCharm

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are you both born again Christians?

Are you both born again Christians? counseling of course must be tried. new ideas must be brought in the marriage. try surprises accompanied with love letters. leave romantic quotes here & there in the house. by all means request the Holy Spirit's assistance. pray to Jesus. i will pray for you. find some of his biggest interests in life & show him interest that your interested in those items.
The husband lied to her. He said he was Christian but when they got married he 'fessed up and told her he was Muslim and always will be.

This is just SO SAD. :cry: