Marriage Reconciliation Question

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Nehemiah6

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We’ve gotten mixed Christian advice and we want to take the advice that she is my first wife and in God’s eyes we are still one.
Under the Law of Moses, you would not be permitted to marry your former wife. However, under the Law of Christ, if you both have repented of your sins and your foolishness, and asked God's forgiveness, you may be reconciled. If you initiated the divorce and went and re-married, then you original wife may have a hard time being reconciled. She may wonder about your sanity and stability. I'm just being brutally frank.

As to the woman who was your short-term wife, she may become vengeful and act against both of you and/or your children. If she is a witch, she may even summon evil spirits against you. So be forewarned and take every precaution necessary to protect yourself and your family. Depending on circumstances, you may even have to relocate and start afresh.
 
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7seasrekeyed

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We’ve gotten mixed Christian advice and we want to take the advice that she is my first wife and in God’s eyes we are still one
well I'm going to comment on this too...doubt the op will pay attention as I don't really think he wants advice as much as he wants permission which, actually absolutely no one of flesh and blood has the authority to give him

anyway

she is your first wife and you have a second wife and want to make number 1 your number 3

you are not still one in God's eyes and would someone please tell me what 'God's eyes' really means?

is there a section in scripture I have somehow missed that reads...'this section is for those of you who refuse to follow instruction you initially said you wanted, those from whom you seek BIBLICAL advice, but did not like the biblical advice so you can find your special alternative permission from 'God's Eyes' in which He will degree you the exception and allow for whatever is commonly referred to as a 'don't do that' into a 'go ahead cause you are going to anyway but now you can say it is with the 'God's Eyes' permission app

but then that is more often then not, the actual reason those who wanna do and are gonna do whatever they want, but have some idea in the back of their head it is wrong, come to a forum and ask strangers for advice

I still hold by my first post which basically said hold off and figure out why you have done what you did and married some other woman in between, instead of jumping back into bed with your rejected 1st wife because she is willing, because God's Eyes let you do so

where are the folks who have stopped playing musical chairs with their marriages and actually have some fear of God considering the vows they took

I do believe divorce is allowable in more than one instance; I am not for remarriage to the same person but would not judge it if it was not actually a soft place to land because wife or husband #2 turned out to be an ogre, but rather prayfully and before a party to whom there is accountability. I do not believe this is the case at all. call it judging. I did

forgive the run on sentences and you are excused for not reading because of them