Married and lonely

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musiclover69

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Can I ask you what type of music lover you are? I tend to connect with people who share my interest in certain types of music. I find it music the perfect distraction from my troubles.
classic rock, Motown, contemporary Christian
 
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Strong Woman, that sucks and I understand. I myself became distracted with the world. It is very easy for it to happen in order to provide and survive in this world as we begin to see it. We start relying on ourselves and forget to believe in God and his promises. It can get our priorities all off the foundation. I hope with you having ministered, yor still trying to talk with your husband and children about God and take fellowship in a Godly church. My wife recently has become on fire for God and I am so glad, it is helping me get back in alignment with Him. Being able to pray as a family and seek the Fathers will as one is an awesome thing no doubt. It has been too dry, too long. If your husband has failed to be the spiritual leader in your house and partner, the Lord is with you, lead him and the kids. Anyone that has been near to God knows what it is like to have His love and passion of the spiritual spring run through you, I hate the fact I went cold and I hate myself for it. I know the Lord forgives, but I am having trouble forgiving myself. When you know the Father and perfect love how and why did I fail him. I hate being weak and I pray God will not just restore me, but bring me to an even greater level of understanding and faith. That I may serve him and do His will on this earth and turn away from my own. For His honor and His glory are what matter to me, they once were and I am driving to again make them the treasures of my heart. He is the song of my soul and I let the love of my life the Father and the Son down. Keep faith sister, we all fail at some point, we all fall and are pruned back. That way we can learn to pick ourselves back up again and grow even closer, for his honor and glory. God Bless.
 
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Sorry if my answer are all over the place. I am still trying to figure out how to reply to who and how. I am also typing on my phone so please forgive errors in grammar and format.
 
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Strong woman
Sister, I think you will find this song in spirit the Lord sings to you. I think you will find the words speak to your heart imagine the Lord singing to you. I for one believe he is.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5SpkOcbVYS0



... I understand what it is to be married and lonely. I married a Christian man who showed some great qualities, but he has since drifted and I am left in a marriage where we have little or no real prayer or fellowship. It wasn't my fault, and I am a strong enough Christian to not seek my wholeness in another person, but it is still lonely.

I was never lonely when single, I enjoyed the "freedom to serve with undivided devotion", was very active in my church, dedicated to ministry, and had some great friends and prayer partners. Now that I'm married with kids, I have less time and more "troubles in this life" as Paul put it. I had hoped that my husband would be friend and prayer partner, but he is not.

Yes, it is very lonely. Looking for a prayer partner.[/QUOTE]
 
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Oh and music lover the ILL be there for you song is dedicated to you too. :)
 
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You know brothers and sisters, some say only certain people can forgive sins and some say only men can be the spiritual leaders. I ask them then, who among them can make one goat black and another white? Who can tell the sun when to rise and the stars to shine or fall? If they cannot command these things, then who among them can say whom God has chosen to carry his word and whom he doesn't for his will to be done? Ye shall know them by their fruits.
 
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It turns out those three are almost nowhere to be found on my hard drive. It was sort of a stab in the dark. Good luck.
Ok, that makes since then why I kept typing brother or sister. The song and Chrsit are still talking to you!
 
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Fleurdelise

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I hope your situation gets better.. I am also married and lonely, so easy to be such nowadays. They keep on saying we have to look to God to fill the void..so why then do we need to keep spouses who won't even try? Why dont we all just go back to God and spend our lives for him only. I know, i know, there will be a lot of verses to answer my question but i just wanted to let that out. Sorry if im not uplifting you in any way. Ure not alone though. may God bless u..
 
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Johnmark

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I will be more than happy to talk with you
 

Jesus4ever

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Praying for your marriage!


May the Lord bless you!
 
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Ariel82

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Is there a way to connect privately to share prayer requests off this board, I wonder??
You can private message each other, it's like email.

Click on their name and a private message tab should pop up with other options.