seek God's will first and foremost...ask Him through Jesus if He wishes you to be in contact with your aunty because if God tells you NO at this time and you go ahead anyway, disaster will result...if God tells you to be in contact with your aunty and you fail to contact her then disaster will result...remain in God's will regardless of the advice of the people on here..pray and read God's word and listen to that still small voice that tells you what you should be doing