MY HUSBAND HAS NOT LEFT

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pearl777 said:
I have also learned through this that you don't tell all your business to people that think you know nothing. I was asking for Godly counseling from people I thought loved God . I expect nothing more nothing less I'm just really surprised at my brothers and sisters on this thread.
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Many people here who post about their divorce, affair, etc, ask for advice and opinions. Ultimately they don't like hearing what some of us tell them. They would rather hear the glossed over, sugarcoated version of the truth, rather than the raw truth itself. As sassylady stated, the ones who don't heed our advice then suffer for it because they'd rather keep on being played for a fool by their spouse.
 
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pearl777 said:
I have also learned through this that you don't tell all your business to people that think you know nothing. I was asking for Godly counseling from people I thought loved God . I expect nothing more nothing less I'm just really surprised at my brothers and sisters on this thread.
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Did you ask for help on this one from the cashier at the grocery store? I really don't believe you know nothing, and yet you are assuming way too much about what (or more precisely Who, since we're taking God here) others know. You can no more assume the cashier can give you godly counsel, than anyone on this site. In reality, it is just as likely the cashier really can give you godly counsel.

Think about it. Whether a cashier at a grocery store or a stranger online, you really don't know if the person/people you're talking to are believers. Which is why it seems like a bad idea to be taking advice... particularly because you're not telling us much. (And it may well be wise not to tell much.)

Then again, even the person bagging your groceries can tell you kissing your husband every day is not telling him to get out. You found out three weeks ago. Do you honestly think you've gotten past all the swirling emotions to deal with the obvious question? ("What are you going to do about it?") In a mere three weeks, I'm not even sure I could get past the overwhelming desire to punch him. (Not a good thing to do, but where my mind repeated takes me when hubby does something I don't like. lol)
 
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