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Wait............. so she's NEVER masturbated........!?!?!?!?! Honestly? I don't know of a woman over the age of 21 that hasn't taken matters into her own hands (wow, pun definitely intended) when the urge arose. It may not be something they do as stereotypically often as males do. But women will still pleasure themselves. And lie about it later.
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A. How many women do you know?
B. Why write this a week later? (Especially since he made his decision a few days ago.)
B. Why write this a week later? (Especially since he made his decision a few days ago.)
You say you know "a bunch of women", eh? Well, there's MILLIONS of women over the age of 21 in this world, yet you also say you don't know any women over the age of 21 who don't pleasure themselves. How do YOU know whether the ones you do know, masturbate or not? Is that a topic of conversation between you and those millions of women? Now obviously you don't know EVERY woman over age 21 in the world, so your comment saying you don't know any women over 21 who don't masturbate, is pointless because you don't know if they do or not, unless they make it a habit of telling you whenever they do it. :/
Well it looks like 38% of women click the mouse and 61% of men play air guitar naked.....at least according to this article.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/200903/how-common-is-masturbation-really
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For a woman it wouldn't be shucking corn it'd be shelling the peas .And most everybody's done it. Some people are probably thinking about doing it right now and planning to repent after they catch their breath. Paul said it's better to marry than to burn (with lust) . which tells me that masturbation is not acceptable for a Christian to be doing. But some of us still hit a lick at it sometimes. And you all know who you are.Let's keep it real. I know a man who shucked corn every night while his wife shelled peas right next to him. I guess they were vegans. Lol (with a sly wink).....
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The OPs partner feels its wrong and feels convicted about it. Its something that should be talked out during premarital counseling. If he felt strongly about something I'm sure he'd want her to take it seriously. I dont see how intimacy can be helped if people dosey doe alone. Yes, people do it but its probably not a healthy thing for marriage. I agree with you.