my son is 9 and alone

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kshine

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My son is 9yrs old his father is paralized n he don't spend much time with him if any at all. My husnand has rejected him my son don't say much but I'm afraid he may be supressing his feeling I ask him to share with me but he just say he fine I c that he's not I cry for him cus there is nothing I can do. Tv is his only comfort I pray for him n tell him that everthing happens for a reason he also has a learning disabilit. Hugg him and tell him I love him but I don't feel that is enough. So much is going on for a break through. Pray for my son ISAIAH PLEASE
 
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shekaniah

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Dear Heavenly Father, I place this family into your hands. Give Kshine the knowledge, depth and insight....to know how to care for the needs of her son Isaiah. Lead and direct all their hearts in Christ Jesus. God bless this family, In Jesus Name Amen
 
zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

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Is he eating ok? If he is, I wouldn't be too worried, but if he isn't you might want to think about getting him some counseling. Makes me sad to hear about kids who are sad. :(
 
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Jullianna

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Do you have other men in your family who could help serve as male role models for your son? brothers? father? uncles? grandfather? Other men in your church?

Opportunities where your son can spend time with other little boys are very important too, like church, school activities, sports programs, scouting, etc.

Praying God will guide you in helping your son.
 
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kshine

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I'm praying thta God would send someone that's is designed for him. To help him go and mature. Transportaion keeps me from attending church but I walk somtimes to the nearest church.
 
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Jullianna

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Then my prayer will also be that your transportation issue will be resolved so that you and your family can spend time with fellow believers. Sounds like all of you could use that support. :) Is there a church you'd like to attend that has a bus ministry?
 
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kshine

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No but theres. A church n walkn distancewe went there once
 
damombomb

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praying for you, he said if you believe anything is possible, car,healing, anything sister,just believe.
In christian love
 
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Bobbyking

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Hi

Look to God... He is your Heavenly Father, and He is also your son's Heavenly Father.

If you have a picture Bible for kids, read with him. You read a couple of lines, and he reads a couple of lines. Tell bible stories, be creative and fun. Get his attention. If you don't have a picture bible, you can still tell exciting bible stories without it. However, you can refer to your Bible some specific verses (and make sure you allow him to read to you...)

Due to your circumstances, your son most likely has withdrawn to himself. But all is not lost. When you tell bible stories and share the power of God in the lives of God's men & women, God is able to draw him out with His anointing.

He may begin to ask questions and that's where you start connecting with him. And you can also end your bible session with him by reminding him that 'if God can work through these people, God can also work through you too!'
 
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