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There were two demons sat outside the pearly gates & they were crying. Peter came out and asked them why they were upset, and they said ‘it’s those Christians, they blame us for everything’
And sometimes those Christians be right:)
 

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yep
Judas only acted the way he did cos Satan entered him. It says right there in scripture.
 
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yep
Judas only acted the way he did cos Satan entered him. It says right there in scripture.
And he went and hanged himself due to his sin. There are those who do vile, vile wrong who should go hang themselves. God is a God of Justice and some sins are so vile that I believe they call out for God's judgement.
 

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sins against children are especially horrible. The problem is when those who know turn a blind eye to it and do nothing to protect the vulnerable.
Please if this has happened to you report the crime. Even if that person isnt arrested at least you have reported it and God can deal with them. Even if this happened years ago. There is support avilable for victims. Plus you then learn NOT to be a victim again.
 
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sins against children are especially horrible. The problem is when those who know turn a blind eye to it and do nothing to protect the vulnerable.
Please if this has happened to you report the crime. Even if that person isnt arrested at least you have reported it and God can deal with them. Even if this happened years ago. There is support avilable for victims. Plus you then learn NOT to be a victim again.
The individual who did something evil was reported as much as possible. Please ask God for judgement on her - she is a wicked, evil woman who calls herself a Christian. I told God that heaven would not be heaven if she were there.
 

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The individual who did something evil was reported as much as possible. Please ask God for judgement on her - she is a wicked, evil woman who calls herself a Christian. I told God that heaven would not be heaven if she were there.
she probably is not very happy and already living a miserable life anyway. Let go of her and be free.
 
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she probably is not very happy and already living a miserable life anyway. Let go of her and be free.
You're right - she is a miserable person so she tries to bring down others to her level. The issue I have is with God - why He doesn't enact justice.
 
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My daughter has started problems between my husband and I for years. As much as I love her, she seems to do the devil's work in starting trouble. We recently began getting along good - I was babysitting every day and we actually had a good relationship that I've always wanted. Then I got depressed over physically damage I sustained and was feeling down when my grandson said something hurtful and I shot back at him. My daughter got angry and made a BIG problem.
SaintRose, a lot of us understand your pain. In our case, our son, who was raised a Christian, left the Truth and now does not even believe in God. He married a Japanese woman (he has lived in Japan for years) who has zero understanding of the Bible and her relationship with my wife is nonexistent, despite how much we financially help them and our grand-daughter. At this point, my son and his wife do not speak to us nor do they allow us to speak to our grand-daughter. Although it is a long story, the bottom line is that the main disruptor to the relationship is our faith. But, we accept their right to live their own lives, as "each one will carry his own load" (Galations 6:5) before God and each one will eventually be responsible for his or her behavior. At this point, all we can do is pray for our grand-daughter who is being raised in an anti-God home and we look to other family members and church members to fill that hole.

You are not alone my sister in these family struggles and these stressors are hard to deal with, but we "press on to maturity"! (Hebrews 6:1)
 
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SaintRose, a lot of us understand your pain. In our case, our son, who was raised a Christian, left the Truth and now does not even believe in God. He married a Japanese woman (he has lived in Japan for years) who has zero understanding of the Bible and her relationship with my wife is nonexistent, despite how much we financially help them and our grand-daughter. At this point, my son and his wife do not speak to us nor do they allow us to speak to our grand-daughter. Although it is a long story, the bottom line is that the main disruptor to the relationship is our faith. But, we accept their right to live their own lives, as "each one will carry his own load" (Galations 6:5) before God and each one will eventually be responsible for his or her behavior. At this point, all we can do is pray for our grand-daughter who is being raised in an anti-God home and we look to other family members and church members to fill that hole.

You are not alone my sister in these family struggles and these stressors are hard to deal with, but we "press on to maturity"! (Hebrews 6:1)
Wow - that's painful when grandkids are withheld - my daughter is doing the same thing. I raised my grandson but she doesn't care. She refuses to teach him our faith. But her boyfriend was saved - so God is doing something. But he has to keep it quiet from his family - they have their own anti-God issues. I know she was hurt and felt that God abandoned her - and I'll be honest, God troubles me a LOT and I struggle, not with believing, but with God as a Just God. Too much has happened where He hasn't helped. I dealt with a lawyer who walked away from his faith after handling priest sex-abuse cases. Even the apostles "despaired of life" so I'm not unique. But it is somewhat comforting to hear of others' deep struggles. I have prayed until I can't and I thought our relationship had finally healed - and Satan got in there. I'm just very very weary. I've fought so many battles that it's time for a rest.

I will encourage you in praying since my daughter did turn around after awhile - only to have Satan shoot another fiery dart. But back on my knees I go.
 

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you got to ask God that..I suspect He is choosing mercy over justice at this stage and probably knows more things about her (where he soul is headed) than you do.

The other thing is dont rely on some manmade churches to do the right thing cos they cant, eg catholic church just turned a blind eye to abuse, because they werent rightly related to God. Some make a big show of being religious, but they dont really know Him.
 
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you got to ask God that..I suspect He is choosing mercy over justice at this stage and probably knows more things about her (where he soul is headed) than you do.

The other thing is dont rely on some manmade churches to do the right thing cos they cant, eg catholic church just turned a blind eye to abuse, because they werent rightly related to God. Some make a big show of being religious, but they dont really know Him.
I'm hoping that she turns to God - that's who she needs, although, as I said, I have my own struggles with God and what He does and doesn't do. I just would like to see some clear answers - I've seen some huge answers but other times I have not and it hurts.

The justice I have asked for is for those who harmed my children and I. I just pray that my daughter's heart turns once again towards me. She's susceptible to Satan's fiery darts.
 
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AMEN! I prayed as I typed this and I had a prayer answered - not regarding my family but something else. I needed it.
 
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yep
Judas only acted the way he did cos Satan entered him. It says right there in scripture.
Judas was a thief. he had a choice, like we all do. he chose death, not life deut.30:19
 
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Judas was a thief. he had a choice, like we all do. he chose death, not life deut.30:19
Yes Judas chose evil. The wicked person I knew chose evil. I do not know why God won't punish her. She should not be alive; she's that ugly. it's up to God.
 
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Yes Judas chose evil. The wicked person I knew chose evil. I do not know why God won't punish her. She should not be alive; she's that ugly. it's up to God.
Luke 18:9-14
We have ALL fallen short of The glory of The Lord 😐
 
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sounds like some witchcraft in your family...maybe pray some binding and loosing prayers as it sounds complicated. Dont curse anyone, be a blessing.

if you are able to Forgive them...they dont really know what they are doing just as at some point you were forgiven for doing wrong things out of ignorance in the past. God allows most people to breathe, both unrighteous and righteous alike in most part cos He is merciful, longsuffering and waiting for us all to repent.

I know it hurts when people say they are christian and then proceed to do ungodly things. if Judas did that to Jesus it can happen to all of us. The difference I supoose between Peters unfaithfulnes and Judas was Peter asked forgiveness while Judas did not.
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I figured out there is definitely something evil in my ex-family. My great-grandmother's husband was killed and she got a tidy settlement; however she became depressed (who wouldn't?) and her sister stole her two children and had her committed to an institution and stole her money.

Years later my evil older sister Linda - who is a witch did something very very evil to me. After doing evil to me, she stole our other sister Joanne's house after her husband died and she was overcome with grief.

I don't understand why God allows the witch to breathe air - she's evil and manipulates people really bad. I prayed and prayed she would be stopped but God lets her live and I don't know why - all she does is spread evil.

Then my younger sister played both sides of the fence; she never had any children so I made the mistake of sharing my children's phone numbers with her. She invited my children to something where the witch was when I had REPEATEDLY told her not to. She has mental illness. I told her to stop contacting my children after that and she threatened to keep money as the Executrix of my father's estate. She did just that. She found a crooked lawyer and the two harassed me for a year trying to force me to sign a document taking thousands from my share. I refused and the psycho had the gall to call my own children and daughter-in-law trying to get them to turn on me. My son went back at her with both barrels. They should have both been arrested. I saw just how corrupt the court system is. The corrupt lawyer got a corrupt lawyer in the probate office to "lose" my brief as I represented myself.

I don't understand why God didn't do more. He did give me an honest judge and I won in court but they should have all lost their jobs and been arrested. The witch Linda was again at the root of it.

So the sister that tried manipulating me ended up losing my friendship and her "pseudo-family." My husband said she's delusional since she kept insisting she has children. She has step-children but they moved far away from them - I think she lied about her relationship with them. She knows the kids are going to go with their birth mother and not her so she was trying to take over my family.

That's how my ex family is - they're sickening, disgusting parasites.

I've gotten angry at God putting me in that ugly family. Why didn't He give me a good family? A normal family?

I don't understand Him. I don't understand why He won't show me that the witch that did so much EVIL was punished. I really don't understand God at all.
 
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Luke 18:9-14
We have ALL fallen short of The glory of The Lord 😐
Yes but you know in your heart that some people do overt evil. Some sins are greater and cause more pain - they should be treated as such; harshly.
 
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sounds like some witchcraft in your family...maybe pray some binding and loosing prayers as it sounds complicated. Dont curse anyone, be a blessing.

if you are able to Forgive them...they dont really know what they are doing just as at some point you were forgiven for doing wrong things out of ignorance in the past. God allows most people to breathe, both unrighteous and righteous alike in most part cos He is merciful, longsuffering and waiting for us all to repent.

I know it hurts when people say they are christian and then proceed to do ungodly things. if Judas did that to Jesus it can happen to all of us. The difference I supoose between Peters unfaithfulnes and Judas was Peter asked forgiveness while Judas did not.
Yes and Judas' evil was much greater. Peter just denied Christ; Judas actually betrayed Him, selling Him for 30 pieces of silver. My ex sister is a Judas; it would be better for the entire world if she was removed from it. She appears as an angel of light - that's why she's so dangerous. She took so much in free government benefits and would steal whatever she could off of anybody - and she's so rotten selfish she wouldn't give a dying child a cup of cold water.

Please pray that God will remove her for the good of the world - she's that evil. She misleads people and destroys whatever she can.
 

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um ok

Lord help saint roses sister to realise all the evil shes done, and in doing so to stop her from doing more. If she has the jezebel spirit then do what you need to do to bind her. we know YOU are merciful and kind but this complicated family situation is way too big for us to handle on our own.
Lord please heal saintrose from the past sins against her that are preying on her mind too. Set her free In Jesus mighty name. amen
 
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um ok

Lord help saint roses sister to realise all the evil shes done, and in doing so to stop her from doing more. If she has the jezebel spirit then do what you need to do to bind her. we know YOU are merciful and kind but this complicated family situation is way too big for us to handle on our own.
Lord please heal saintrose from the past sins against her that are preying on her mind too. Set her free In Jesus mighty name. amen
Oh not the Jezebel spirit again
I've heard them all; fear spirit,
Dominion spirit. Get a grip & READ THE BIBLE! (Give me strength) 😇