Well turns out I am not moving to P.A after all. We pulled the contract on the house. We found out the company we were going to get the house from is Under investigation by the department of justice. Apparently the have been naughty. Thanking God we found out about it in the 30 day window. We can disolve our contract like it never happened and get our down payment back. So now if everyone could pray we find another place to go here in N.Y. p.s. I am pretty glad we got out I was very unsure about the deal in the first place and moving so far away from my kids.. God works in amazing ways.. amen.