Pray for my family

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Bazman

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Hi all,

I love my children and so want them to know the Lord. My youngest is really struggling also with learning at school. The teachers and psychologist think she may well be on the Autistic spectrum. Please pray for her and for them that they can get a break through to help her learn.
 
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CanadaNZ

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I work as a special education assistant and can tell you it can be a tough road sometimes when dealing with ASD, the best advice I can give you is to keep praying, push to get the best help possible and do your best to make sure the home environment is as consistent with the school interventions as possible. God bless and may He provide the best people possible for your little one.
 
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chatter23

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Bazman said:
Hi all,

How old is the child?
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I love my children and so want them to know the Lord. My youngest is really struggling also with learning at school. The teachers and psychologist think she may well be on the Autistic spectrum. Please pray for her and for them that they can get a break through to help her learn.
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I would not put pressure on your child to learn, let her go very slowly even if she fails. When I young I also had learning poblems and failed many times. I came from a dysfunctual family and had emotional problems . They didn't have a name for it, but I think it was ASD. I got through the 11th grade, quit and got a job. Little by little I started my own business and learned a lot on my own. Don't put a label on her. She may be a spiritual person as she grows up and learn from the inside as she walks with God. God is a great teacher and He does not push. So many kids are intellectuals, but, far from intelligent.
Don't let the medical profession label her either.
Don't worry about her, let her blossom slowly and surely.
 
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jb800m

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praying for wisdom for all ppl in volve.. to access things properly but not to label but to adjust things to help this dear child move forward, that she can be all she can be in Christ and to those around her
 
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paulorpc

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Does your youngest behave really different from their siblings at home? It's possible that she feels uncomfortable at school because of context adaptation. Talk a bit more with her teachers. All possibilities shoud be checked. By the way, Christ is almighty and, as we are used to say here in Brazil, "the last word is His" - so let's pray for her.
 
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Bazman

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Thanks for your comments. I love all my children. I feel for my youngest as she is almost scared to learn scared to fail and I don't know where this fear comes from. I guess for me I need to keep showing her love to build her confidence and also for her to know that God loves her too.
 
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Lucy68

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Bazman said:
Thanks for your comments. I love all my children. I feel for my youngest as she is almost scared to learn scared to fail and I don't know where this fear comes from. I guess for me I need to keep showing her love to build her confidence and also for her to know that God loves her too.
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My daughter also had a huge fear of failure. Many things she wouldn't even try something because she knew she couldn't do it perfectly right from the beginning. Therefore she lost out on some good opportunities.

One thing you might want to do is to play cards and boardgames with her. She'll gain confidence as she masters the games plus see that learning anything is a process. Also learning a musical instrument is good. Practice definitely means improvement.....If she can come to realize that most of our best learning comes from failures and mistakes, this will change her perspective about failing. Thomas Edison failed at the light bulb a hundred times or so before he got it right :).
 
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Richie_2uk

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Or you could make up a treasure hunt game with her, I.E let her do most of the thinking, But you explain how it works. Get her involved in placing the clues in different rooms. Once placed, you get the other kids to look around, and get involved. It can be about the bible and make it fun. and when they find the treasure, make sure there's enough for all.

or you could place wildcards in there rooms, when they find them, they bring to you, and you then explain the wildcards through the bible. But don't do it everyday. just now and then. Example: the wildcard could say the word Love. you then get the bible out and point to a few verses that contain that word. you can extend it but finding pics to colour in that relates to the wildcard. and then make cakes to finish off.

God bless Bass Bazman, I lift up your situation to our Lord. Rely on him who can answer you. in your time of need. God bless
 
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