question about the unbeliever departing

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judebee

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would u say a christian who leaves a marriage over trivial issues, blocks her number, refuses to get counciling, and wont talk to u an ''unbeliver who departs''???
 
Dec 9, 2011
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No. A christian believes in Jesus and his finished work at the cross.A true believer would not have a desire to be alive
to sin,but
the rest of what you asked is( i believe what the sin concience does), and this is left over from the old man(carnal mind)and a
person has to not
be conformed to this world,but be transformed by the renewing of their minds.Romans chapter 7 and chapter12
 
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Ugly

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I think the question is 'what would you SAY to.......'
Well, i wouldn't say anything. I'd ask. The problem here is no one can truly answer because no one has any details. Your side of things make it all sound very minor and petty how she's acting, but what are her reasons? You call things 'trivial issues', but what exactly is that? And obviously these issues aren't trivial to her. Maybe that could be part of the problem. She thinks certain things are important, you think they're 'trivial' and treat them as such.
If you are the 'unbeliever' who is 'departing', i'm assuming you're a non-christian and are divorcing her, by that wording, well, unless you have underage children what is the necessity of maintaining a friendship?
I can only come to two possible conclusions with the almost non-existant details you've given. Either she's a religious minded person who has no real understanding of her faith. Or your actions have given her reason to respond so strongly. So until i know for sure, all i have are questions, not comments.
 
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MissCris

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would u say a christian who leaves a marriage over trivial issues, blocks her number, refuses to get counciling, and wont talk to u an ''unbeliver who departs''???
I'm hesitant to assume anything about anyone's spiritual standing other than my own, so I find it a little weird that you first say she is a Christian and then ask if she would be considered an 'unbeliever'. You either think she believes in Christ, or you think she doesn't.

What it really sounds like you're asking here is if HER actions justify YOURS from this point on.