I would say this is pretty accurate.
If you don't respect boundaries and one of them cheats or pushes the other too far, that's not a healthy relationship.
If you don't respect that they have their own likes and dislikes and you are bound and determined to change them and micro-manage them, that's not a healthy relationship.
If you don't respect that they have friends outside of your relationship and you forbid them from hanging out with their girls or their guys, that's not a healthy relationship.
I could keep going. Basically, I think a lack of respect stems from other issues: lack of self-control, pride, and jealousy just to name a few based on the examples I gave (in order).
It's definitely possible to work through it. We're all flawed. But if it's a constant issue of no respect, then I don't see that relationship being a very good one.
ETA: I'm speaking about the general "you", not you, Mooky.