shud i compromise my dream?

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kessy001

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i am 29 and engaged. i have been in a long distance relationship for 8yrs now. My fiance is presently at the verge of achieving his dream and as a result it would take another 3-4yrs before we can finally be together. i know he loves me alot and i do same. however i have my dream as well and a long distance relationship/marriage is NOT inclusive. the thought of starting over is almost unbearable, the thought of staying is scary. Am thorn between giving up the man i love and giving up my dream:(. i need to make an unsentimental decision ASAP!

Your advice would be well appreciated. thanks

 

Lucy68

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Jan 21, 2011
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That is really something only you can decide. But it does sound like you two are actually just very good friends :).