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I have an issue that is bothering me, and I can't seem to put my finger on it to help my son. My son is bright and he has lots of friends however, when my son is anxious his mind seems to go blank. I will give a for instance. My son is at a theological seminary and he is on the basketball team. All good so far, but when my son goes to practice and the coach tells him to do something he is completely confused. All the teammates try and help him. I told him that the coach thought him good enough to be on team he will get the plays down.
But really I think what happens is that he disappoints his coach so he has been put on 3rd string. He tells me mom I am so confused when I get out there that I don't know what to do. This really is no new thing with my son. He tends to live in his own world and when he is put on spot his entire mind goes blank. He can't even function. I saw him play last night, he did well, however, I could see the times he was confused and when he's confused he stops, does nothing, looks around I can tell he is completely lost.
Has anyone ever experienced anything I'm mentioning? Or know someone who deals with deep anxiety. I know my aunt used to get so anxious that for many years she could not be around a crowd. And it her 30's she was afraid to drive, so she stopped for like 10 years.
I'm just really worried about him. He confided that this is troubling him and I really don't know what to say other than get your confidence up. I spoke with the coach last night and at first he seemed distant. The second time I told him my son's game had really improved under his coaching(which is true). He seemed more open after that but I know my son and if he feels he's disappointed this man, it will be really hard on him and he almost goes computer overload if you know what I mean. Any thoughts on the matter?
But really I think what happens is that he disappoints his coach so he has been put on 3rd string. He tells me mom I am so confused when I get out there that I don't know what to do. This really is no new thing with my son. He tends to live in his own world and when he is put on spot his entire mind goes blank. He can't even function. I saw him play last night, he did well, however, I could see the times he was confused and when he's confused he stops, does nothing, looks around I can tell he is completely lost.
Has anyone ever experienced anything I'm mentioning? Or know someone who deals with deep anxiety. I know my aunt used to get so anxious that for many years she could not be around a crowd. And it her 30's she was afraid to drive, so she stopped for like 10 years.
I'm just really worried about him. He confided that this is troubling him and I really don't know what to say other than get your confidence up. I spoke with the coach last night and at first he seemed distant. The second time I told him my son's game had really improved under his coaching(which is true). He seemed more open after that but I know my son and if he feels he's disappointed this man, it will be really hard on him and he almost goes computer overload if you know what I mean. Any thoughts on the matter?