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Genipher

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Jan 6, 2019
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#21
What is so incorrect about it?
You said so yourself in your own profile that you are on again off again with the husband, and on again off again with he boyfriend.
How is that fixing a relationship?
You have '18 children" watching you go from husband to boyfriend, and you don't think that is affecting them?

Your own words:

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So, like I said either this is a completely bogus account or you are in need of some serious help.

There's a lot of people on this site that can help with advice, but I'm willing to bet most of them will tell you the same thing. Drop the boyfriend(s). You won't be able to fix your marriage (or set a good example for the children) as long as you have that going on.
It's 13 kids now.
Must've lost a handful of them somewhere...
 

Lanolin

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Dec 15, 2018
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#22
No, you can use restraint but you cant beat up your child. Unless your boyfriend wants to beat your child for you. Sounds like he wants to do it, I would just get rid of the boyfriend first by casting HIM out.

Jesus never attacked anyone but troublemakers and demons he cast out and bound so they didnt cause any mischief.

Children need hugs, Its how they feel secure. Have you hugged your child lately? Hugging is a form of restraint too.