The unfortunate event earlier in the Lounge had upset me to the point of tears, in such a way that I had to leave the room, and the person who offended me was room hopping and I hopped right out the moment he entered the same room as I. Whether he wanted to apologize or not, I was not ready for any interaction with him.
What he fails to understand is that his words, are like sword thrusts to the heart, and those stabs cause emotional trauma in women like me, who've had the unfortunate event of being sexually abused as a child, who grew up thinking that it was the way it was supposed to be, its called "Co'Dependency". For years and years, I subjected myself to relationships because of that. And coming into a room on CC where a have had to endure a single person state blatantly how he WILL enter into a non-committing relationship with any woman to see how far he can push her emotional boundaries, was the last straw.
Regardless of my outcry, and my experiences in life, I want to cry out to everyone here on CC, and I mean everyone - PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE - Guard your hearts, and tame your tongues. You do not know the next person who enters a room, a broken person who comes to seek God's mercy, and your callous words can make or break that person, or any work that's started in such a soul's life.
The questions I want to leave you with, are you willing to take the chance to push a soul over the edge due to your Opinions or callous natures, are you willing to take responsibility for your actions when you so coldly blast things into the open without consideration on how this could adversely affect those around you?
Proverbs 12:18
There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.
Remember your words next time and then remember this:
Mark 9:42
“Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him if a great millstone were hung around his neck and he were thrown into the sea.
