Wow, what can I say to add to all that. I am lucky as many people are here that have posted. I have a wonderful husband, but we were older when we got married. I think you should seek good Christian concealing. It would be awesome if your husband would get counseling too. He probably feels down about himself because of not having a job and not being able to support you, and that can cause a person to do stupid things. Pray for him. Give it as much time as you can. God will honor your efforts. God bless