why go on

[Godgivesmestrength]

I'm so incredibly sorry for what you are going through but God is right by your side. My parents separated when I was eight years old I remember seeing my mom crying for months. They had been together for 8 years and he cheated on her for a very long time my mom was completely blindsided. I was too young to understand but I felt my moms grief and it hurt so much to see her like that. But my mom prayed, prayed, and prayed some more. My mother is now the strongest and bravest woman I have ever met. She got through it all with God guiding her way and she is truly happy now. One day I know you will come to the conclusion my mom did. You will be happy again I promise but this wound is so deep it takes time to heal. Reach out to God he feels your pain and he will heal you. He will show you love and take care of you in your time of need. God will make a way when there seems to be no way. Take this time to truly discover who you are, learn to love yourself, most importantly don't forget to pamper yourself. God is with you always at your best and worst times. I promise he will help you just reach out to him and pray your heart out. God bless, I will be praying for you!

 

[pwrnJC]

Mokie22yrold....GOD bless you, keep you under HIS wings and in time, you will look back and be able to see that HE did just that. It has to be hard...I dealt with it with our daughter, who married a boy in which my wife and I took under our wings, helped him get into college and bought things for himto be a culinary chef, as he is extremely talented. Little did we know that he would turn out to be an abusive spouse, and in league with his mom, a nurse, in a drug ring. A divorce is actually a funeral of a broken marriage and it does take time to begin to refocus and heal. Again...Thankyou for sharing and hold your head up high, sister!!!!!

 

[secularhermit]

Don´t even think about giving up or anything suicidal. Don´t give room a thought an emptied heart.

I´ve been there a couple of times and give some understanding to FREE WILL and, if he is getting old, that brand new girl, will leave him one day or another.

That hurts a lot but, it worths enduring that painstaking experience.

Eternal life deserve eternal experiences of being left.

I hope you have a child, at least, to keep life going on.

 

[PennEd]

thanks for all the encouragement. I'm still waiting to hear if my lousy husband has been served. I just want all this legal stuff to be over. rumor had it the woman he had affair with is pregnant. I don't know how low, cruel, hurtful he can be. all I ever did was love him to pieces.

My heart breaks for you. Please know that there are a multitude of people that love you and recognize you as an incredibly valuable lady. Most importantly, know that the Lord will hold you up and bring you through this time.

 

[GypsyRebel]

thanks everyone for the encouragement and not judging me. I've had people tell me" love is blind" they saw this coming. well I didn't. I saw a nice caring "Christian" man. he is anything but now. someone else says" get over it" they don't understand.

I'm with you Luv. I'm going through the similar things. Most everything people say really doesn't help. Until You believe! I have to believe God has something better for us!

Ask the Lord to give you a new heart. Clean your mind of these negative thoughts. Do not let Satan's minions whispers effect you. "Just say Jesus" You're in my prayers.

 

[mokie22yrold]

thanks for praying for me everyone. my husband did get papers served him. he was also trying to serve me papers but he doesn't know where I am. ☺ has anyone taken that divorce care group classes?

 

[atwhatcost]

thanks for praying for me everyone. my husband did get papers served him. he was also trying to serve me papers but he doesn't know where I am. ☺ has anyone taken that divorce care group classes?

You might want to ask that on a new thread, since it's rare for people to read this far to find out a new question has been asked. (I haven't, so can't help you.)