Ummm, we aren't loners here in the city. I know my neighbors. Joe's grandson (who is in his 30's now) helped me install the screen to my front door after I couldn't do it. Every neighbor has been asking me about John and telling me they're praying. No one honked yesterday when we had to stop traffic while John got out of the car and used his walker to the door before I found a spot to park the car. (They honk when a deliver person jumps out of the car, so it's not like many aren't honkers. lol) Another neighbor offered to help me lug in groceries. (Only three trips, so I was fine.) The biggest complaint of the RNC when they were in town to make G.W. our next President was we were too damn friendly. Oh, and the number one thing I hear from folks in the doctor's waiting rooms for reasons they return to town is because the suburbs are so unfriendly.
Last week I had to go into the Jersey suburbs. (South Jersey, so you cant blame this on city-dwellers moving to the burbs or displaced New Yorkers.) While I was there, I decided to go grocery shopping because it has to be less hectic than city shopping always is. Ends up city shopping is less hectic, and the shoppers were much less friendly than city shoppers.
In reality, I think it's just the same for both places -- if you know someone, you're friendly. If you don't, you're not. At least, unless there is a political convention in town and then suddenly we're all "too friendly." (Seriously? 5/6ths of Philadelphians are Democrats, yet Republicans are complaining because the revivals are too friendly? What is this world coming to?) The Dems were nice to my people's convention several years ago, so I'll be nice to the Dems at their convention. (I'm not waving at Hillary though. I'll smile though. I did wave to G.W.)