Hard being a Women of God

I've heard the Sermon of a man I admire
TD Jakes
Explaining to women how hard it is being MAN.
Though I haven't heard the Sermon for Women and how hard it is for us.
How we walk through life in relationships where we give ourselves to a Man whole heartedley
And how they Take, TAKE Take.
How we go through life with gift of being intuitive and harnessing the pain of knowing we're being
LIED to,TAKEN for GRANTED.
WHO will preach the Sermon of what we go through and WHY?
WHO will explain to me through GODS WORD WHY we Nurture and can't be nurtured.
Can't get what we Give.
Why we Give so much Even so much as to Question our Gifts from our HEAVENLY FATHER ABOVE.
For our Husbands
Our HEADS
or so we think.
Could this be why we compromise ourselves from who and what we are .
Could this be the reason we go to be with a women and end up Sinning?
LORD What does your word say about our Hearts and how Broken we are?

Hi everyone I'm new tothe site please feel free to post your thoughts any bible versuses.
Thanks

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Bless you, a womans very natureand life is intercession..but without grace it crushes her.

Thankyou DenR I appreciate your wisdom

First, our earthly relationships need not determine the ultimate quality of our lives. Not all men take take take. Regardless of why you believe this, God gives gives gives.
If we're being lied to and taken for granted then there are things we needs to address in our relationships. If you're not being nurtured perhaps your relationships need adjustment. There are many nurturing people. God nurtures.

This is not a problem a sermon fixes. Sermons don't fix a thing if no one listens. You need an encounter with a nurturing, loving, generous God... Not a sermon. We are to worry about what we learn from the sermon, and it seems like there may be someone in your life you'd like to hear this message because you feel they don't appreciate you.

His word says we are all broken and while men tend towards identifying themselves with their work, women become overly dependent on men. They define themselves and their value based on how much attention they get, whether they get what they want, if their man is loving, etc. So we're all left with this screwed up identity that we try to reinvent. But we end up doing damage to ourselves because we have a hole we can't fill. We fill it with dreams, love, fun, etc but only God can fill it. But God had to be separate from us and our sin. He didn't want to be so he sent Jesus in order to bridge a relationship between us. Jesus fulfills that hole we need that we as women look to fill in men.

I do agree that women have it just as hard as men, if not harder. We have to battle against the world's view of a 'beautiful woman'. We're pressured constantly to be at an extremely unhealthy weight, wear tons of makeup, color and fix our hair, and buy tight revealing clothing. Also, like OP said, we have to nurture and be understanding, sensitive, sweet, delicate, kind, and all that other crap. Rarely, do women get what they give and it's ridiculous. However, this isn't the case for some women. A lot of that comes down to being with the wrong man who isn't suited for you. We give and give and give, but the person receiving could care less. We need to save all of that for the right one, when God reveals him to us.

Also, just to be fair, a lot of men feel the same way. Even on this site, I've read the posts from guys who feel they have so much to offer but just can't seem to find a good Christian woman that appreciates them. We all fight our battles in this world, and it isn't easy for either gender.

Thankyou for your very valid points. I appreciate it. God Bless you.