The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit: a broken and a contrite heart, O God, you will not despise. Psalm 51:16
The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit. Psalm 34:17-19
Jesus' love was broken and spilled out in obedience to His Father. If we are to be followers of Christ, then it means our lives should be broken and spilled out, too. We can offer up our pain. We can offer up our destitution, our devastation, whatever we think is like end of the world. It's not the end of the world. There is something to do for others in the name of Jesus. Once broken, we are much more qualified aqnd ready tom love others and serve them.