What qualities do women look for in a man?

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Holei

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I wonder.. What qualities do women look for in a man?
I'm talking about looks, personality, skills.. Everything. And what qualities do you think are most important? :)
 
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zaoman32

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Someone who will treat me to nice dinner every once in a while, listen to my thoughts, share ideas...oh wait, you probably want the females opinion, my bad.
 
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Relena7

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There are probably a million magazine articles out there with lists of things on this subject. :p
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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Personality: Not a total weenie

Looks: Taller than me, Dont care what color hair or eyes.. well EXCEPT red, cannot under any circumstances have red hair. Because if we ever reproduce the power of our red hair combined will produce some kind of MEGA RED HAIRED MUTANT!!!!!

skills: i prefer him not to have any, that way its more likely he'll do what he's told

:D
 
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Well, for one thing, he has to have proper hygiene. Must know how to cook and boil water. Lord knows, I can't. He needs to know that I don't like to make sandwiches and that the kitchen is a place for both men and women. The toilet seats need to be set down at ALL time when I'm in the house with him. He needs to be a real proper and gentlemen-like. He doesn't have to be perfect, but perfect wouldn't hurt, you know? He must know I like cuddling and snuggling. Know how to kill wild game if an untimely apocalyptic event occurs. Must know to to play Super Mario Bros. 2 and also he must know how to use a 12 gauge shot gun, just in case a zombie outbreak does happen. He must be willing to wear a cape, blue and red tights just in case I have a sudden urge to be saved by Superman. He has to know to pick up after himself. I'm not going to be his mother. I hate guys who leave the towel on the floor. You know how many germs travel by feet? It's actually kinda disgusting. He must treat me like a princess. If I want to be a fragile wall flower one second and then Wonder Woman the next, he must be completely adaptable to my sudden mood swings.

Kiddaaang
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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Well, for one thing, he has to have proper hygiene. Must know how to cook and boil water. Lord knows, I can't. He needs to know that I don't like to make sandwiches and that the kitchen is a place for both men and women. The toilet seats need to be set down at ALL time when I'm in the house with him. He needs to be a real proper and gentlemen-like. He doesn't have to be perfect, but perfect wouldn't hurt, you know? He must know I like cuddling and snuggling. Know how to kill wild game if an untimely apocalyptic event occurs. Must know to to play Super Mario Bros. 2 and also he must know how to use a 12 gauge shot gun, just in case a zombie outbreak does happen. He must be willing to wear a cape, blue and red tights just in case I have a sudden urge to be saved by Superman. He has to know to pick up after himself. I'm not going to be his mother. I hate guys who leave the towel on the floor. You know how many germs travel by feet? It's actually kinda disgusting. He must treat me like a princess. If I want to be a fragile wall flower one second and then Wonder Woman the next, he must be completely adaptable to my sudden mood swings.

Kiddaaang
I freakin love it
 
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jadealexis

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I look for someone who believes in God, someone laid back, respects me helping my family out, attentive to me someone who will listen to me a confident person someone with patience and likes my baby pug :)
 

seoulsearch

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Personality: Not a total weenie

(So being a partial weenie is ok? How much of a weenie is he allowed to be... "Hi, I have the personality of half a weenie and I think you're hot so wanna go out with me sometime?") If two people each have the personality of half a weenie, would they then equal a WHOLE weenie if they started dating? :D

Looks: Taller than me, Dont care what color hair or eyes.. well EXCEPT red, cannot under any circumstances have red hair. Because if we ever reproduce the power of our red hair combined will produce some kind of MEGA RED HAIRED MUTANT!!!!!

Personally, I would LOVE to see your red-haired mutant babies... Heck, I wouldn't even be afraid to pick them up and everything... :D (My high school boyfriend had reddish-blonde hair... Combined with my bottle-induced burgundy hair, I'm not sure what we would have produced as offspring.)

skills: i prefer him not to have any, that way its more likely he'll do what he's told

Apparently the only skill Nod's man will need to have... is obedience...

:D
I work with a girl whose 23-year-old cousins says, "All I'm looking for is a man with good credit and good teeth... and that's incredibly hard to find..." LOL!!!

But in all seriousness, I'm hoping for a guy who has good character, his eyes on God, and treats others with respect without being a pushover. Sense of humor (seeing as I'm obviously a whole weenie all by myself) is also a must!


 
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Jullianna

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Hmmm...let's see.... a christian guy who loves life/laughter/music and can live with a Irish redhaired OCD workaholic who doesn't like to talk with anyone before 10 AM without killing her, and who doesn't mind that she is secretly Batgirl.
 

Snackersmom

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I look for someone who believes in God, someone laid back, respects me helping my family out, attentive to me someone who will listen to me a confident person someone with patience and likes my baby pug :)
I don't really have a wishlist, but this ^^^ sounds ok. However, I would be willing to take a guy that doesn't like jadealexis' baby pug :p
 
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zaoman32

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Hmmm...let's see.... a christian guy who loves life/laughter/music and can live with a Irish redhaired OCD workaholic who doesn't like to talk with anyone before 10 AM without killing her, and who doesn't mind that she is secretly Batgirl.
Epic......
 
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cait

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I would say someone sweet can make people laugh can be themself shares some common interests and treats a girl with love and respect but thats just my general idea
 

sanglina

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To the OP,

I dont think all women would want the same quality in a men or vice versa. Just as the personality and quality of men/women differs from person to person, so will the taste of different men and women be.

Personally, I would prefer a believer with 'smart' personality and conservative values (pertaining to marriage, family and other such related values) coupled by a good sense of humour.
 
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1still_waters

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*snaps bubble gum n twirls my hair...*

Like I totally want a guy who will pay for everything...n like put down the toilet seat.....but like if he treats me like I'm incapable of doing stuff cuz I'm a girl....i'm gonna throw a fit.


*twirls my hair*

...and like i'll know he'll love me if he's totally 100% nice with his mom........but if he puts me on hold to talk to his mom...that's a no no.



mmmhmmm
 

Stuey

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I was going for the credit card joke but Seoul beat me to it. :D