is all women the same?

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lukemission

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hi is all women the same and they never want to know some1 when they end up finding out that you are a unpayed carer for a family member ????
 
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MissCris

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#2
The short answer is...

No.
 
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Nuns_n_roses

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#3
I would refrain from sweeping generalizations about any group of people. I understand your frustration though, but I and I'm sure many other women as well, would find it honorable that you take care of a family member without personal gain.
 
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lukemission

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#4
thanks but I find it hard that any woman that would want to be with me after they find out that I care as they say I wont be there 4 them :(
 
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Nuns_n_roses

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#5
Well that is a personal issue within themselves that they must face. If they cannot take care of themselves but expect you to, it is better that you do not date them as they likely are too dependent upon others and that is a huge red flag.
 
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lukemission

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#6
do u know wat I mean
 

Fenner

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It sounds like you are going through a difficult time now. I read the other thread that said you are taking care of a family member. Not all women will turn you down because of that. I don't want to hurt your feelings, but maybe there are other reasons. You might be meeting women who aren't ready for a relationship. Don't be hard on yourself and focus your attention on other things. When you have free time volunteer. It's a great way to meet people who have the same interests as you.

God Bless you
 
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lukemission

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well I do volunteer but still the same thing happens
 

seoulsearch

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The short answer is...

No.
I'm thinking...

Maybe we should just start answering all these threads, "Yes, all wimmins is the same. End of story. So now what?" and see what happens.

(Luke, I'm sorry for your situation right now... I hope you find someone who understands... but remember too that God may be saying you may not be in a place where you're ready for a relationship either.)
 
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Fenner

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Stay strong Luke focus on God. Keep praying about it. I will pray for you.
 
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lukemission

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#11
thank you x
 
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SeatBelt

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#12
You're still young, Luke. I have learned that the lesson of patience of letting life unfold in God's time can be a grueling one. Please don't let that lesson jade you.
 

maxwel

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Ummm... of course all women are the same.

If they weren't, what would guys talk about on bowling night?
 
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SeatBelt

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#14
actually, it's just a big farce... there is really only One woman, she just moves so fast & with all those disguises we think there's more than one.
 
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Relena7

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If all women were the same then I'd have way more female friends.....I currently have 0, lol.

Anyway, I'm not sure I understand the original question.
 
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ChristianGuy0

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If they really like you, they won't care what you do.

If you are worried about not earning money, perhaps you could start some sort of online business? Make something to sell online (It only costs about $15-$20 to set up a website).. At least then you'll be able to say you're starting your own business and that might help give you some more confidence.

Just trust God... He will set you up with the right girl who is crazy about you and wants to be with you even if it's hard because you care for a family member. Anyway I think it's admirable to take care of someone and I'm sure there's women out there who feel the same. Every woman is different- you'll find someone that's right for you in time, just trust in God... His timing is perfect.
 
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Nope. They come in all different looks shapes and sizes.
 
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FireWire

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If they're not interested in you because of that then they are only looking to have THEIR needs fulfilled instead of giving.
A decent girl would actually ask how she can help all the while getting to know you.
It's about being a servant and looking to another needs.
That's how it should work in a marriage.
 
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agirlandherguitar

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Right now it seems like you should just concentrate on looking after your family member for a while. It's an admirable and noble thing you are doing and most people couldn't handle that. Clearly these whiny little girls you've been around can't handle it.

So to rephrase and answer your question: Yes, all GIRLS are the same but no two WOMEN are alike.