Advice anyone?

[Jeff_56]

to catherder and the rest of you who have sinned in mind, heart, post, and if so in body also -- you have taken an innocent and necessary question and brought your own obscene and unhealthy thoughts and words and made a much bigger mess yourselves,

if any of you is half-way intelligent, you'll just repent and drop it.

the OP understood, simply, truthfully, humbly and honestly, and has done what is good and what is right in HER LIFE, and she SAID SO --- in line with GOD'S WORD --- a GOOD TESTIMONY of HER FAITH and LIFE in JESUS, \

unlike the rest of you perverts who try to make something good look bad.

she has a 'good' life in faith in JESUS, and y'all trying to mess the thread with your waywardness ought to learn from her and from those others who do too,
instead of bringing in the garbage from your life, feeling guilty of it or whatever---

and y'all now seek peace with God, then you might have peace with yourselves and with others.

 

[Reborn]

Quite so, Lynx.
But I've already discerned that Pope Jeffrey aspires to sainthood.

He dislikes everyones walk here.
Yet he returns everyday?

Luckily for us, we have a daily example, of how not to act, and to talk to others.

 

[Jeff_56]

Jeff it's a shame not everybody can be as perfect as you.

did God ever say you cannot be forgiven ?

did God ever tell you that you will remain in darkness and will not see the light ?

i think not. God gave you and everyone else as far as i know the same opportunity in JESUS to be forgiven. most people chose not to be forgiven, according to Scripture.

what will you do ?

 

[skylove7]

I found something beautiful! Its called the ignore button! My anticipations of reading the steam blow from ones ears...is now over! Lol

 

[blue_ladybug]

I found something beautiful! Its called the ignore button! My anticipations of reading the steam blow from ones ears...is now over! Lol

yes the ignore button works wonders. People should use it alot more often. Though IMO, the mods should delete this thread because it's alot more appropriate for the ladies forum. just sayin'...

 

[CatHerder]

to catherder and the rest of you who have sinned in mind, heart, post, and if so in body also -- you have taken an innocent and necessary question and brought your own obscene and unhealthy thoughts and words and made a much bigger mess yourselves

if any of you is half-way intelligent, you'll just repent and drop it.

the OP understood, simply, truthfully, humbly and honestly, and has done what is good and what is right in HER LIFE, and she SAID SO --- in line with GOD'S WORD --- a GOOD TESTIMONY of HER FAITH and LIFE in JESUS, \

The OP has demonstrated godliness and piety and a genuine desire to seek God's direction in whatever new relationship she may or may not have. I will pray for her peace in the situation as God directs her path. However, that does not mean that your question was not inappropriate.

unlike the rest of you perverts who try to make something good look bad.

she has a 'good' life in faith in JESUS, and y'all trying to mess the thread with your waywardness ought to learn from her and from those others who do too,
instead of bringing in the garbage from your life, feeling guilty of it or whatever---

I'll point out here that I addressed the inappropriateness of your question and post. I did not resort to calling you names. Whatever is going on in my life is not reflected in my earlier post. Perhaps it is you twho is projecting.

and y'all now seek peace with God, then you might have peace with yourselves and with others.

This is my with for you as well. Peace.

 

[Jeff_56]

you started the making a mountain out of a molehill, and couldn't, or didn't recognize the reason the question was appropriate (and quietly asked) , and along with the others that compounded your error, what was short and simple and necessary and over before you posted, y'all instead made it a folly.

 

[skylove7]

yes the ignore button works wonders. People should use it alot more often. Though IMO, the mods should delete this thread because it's alot more appropriate for the ladies forum. just sayin'...

In agreement!

 

[gypsygirl]

you started the making a mountain out of a molehill, and couldn't, or didn't recognize the reason the question was appropriate (and quietly asked) , and along with the others that compounded your error, what was short and simple and necessary and over before you posted, y'all instead made it a folly.

sir, you can't possibly believe you've DISCREETLY asked her something by simply making a joke of referencing her hymen and virginity by using another word so similar that everyone knows exactly what you're saying.

there is no discretion in questioning her about this topic in a public forum. especially when it isn't even mildly related to the topic. honestly, i felt bad that she felt obligated to answer it.

what was also odd to me is that rather than offering insight or wisdom, you only asked her one question--which was whether she had a hymen. the fact that you're oblivious to that awkwardness is odd to me. do you realize that women can lose their hymen doing a NUMBER of completely harmless and non-sexual activities?

further, i can't imagine what your question has to do with her seeking advice in the circumstance she's given us. rather than attacks, name calling and insults, why don't you share exactly why your question is such a necessity in this scenario by giving us actual scripture.

one more thing. i have always believed strongly in the value of respecting and learning from my elders. if there is one thing that has been quite sad for me about cc, it is the fact that i have noticed a disturbing trend of people who are in your age range who've completely shaken my faith in looking to elders for wisdom and solid advice. what is up with that?

 

[Lynx]

I notice the OP hasn't posted in this thread in a while. Can't really say I blame her. Had I recently joined this forum I'd leave too.


TO THE PERSON WHO STARTED THIS THREAD: If you're still reading and maybe happen to see my post here, I hope you'll try to ignore certain people and stick around. We're not all bad. There's actually some nice people here - the ones who spoke up against the guy who asked you that question, for starters. It's just that the not-nice people are sometimes really, really vocal. I hope you come back.

 

[gypsygirl]

I notice the OP hasn't posted in this thread in a while. Can't really say I blame her. Had I recently joined this forum I'd leave too.


TO THE PERSON WHO STARTED THIS THREAD: If you're still reading and maybe happen to see my post here, I hope you'll try to ignore certain people and stick around. We're not all bad. There's actually some nice people here - the ones who spoke up against the guy who asked you that question, for starters. It's just that the not-nice people are sometimes really, really vocal. I hope you come back.

you know, i have come to observe that often newbies often receive a hard time when they first arrive. perhaps some unintended, unofficial initiation.

my first week at cc was a real doozy! i had joined in a discussion where i was singled out, and someone looked up my facebook and posted it publicly for all to see, putting my real name out to the public forum, along with photos, etc.

also, a couple of the threads posted, with supporting scripture was so inappropriately used that i found myself wondering whether we all were working with the same bible.

while i was seriously considering not coming back, i received a PM from a member (who no longer participates here) who said how sorry she was that i was treated badly, and hoped i would stick around in spite of being treated badly by one sourpuss.

i was so encouraged by that single member's effort to make me feel welcome that i decided to stay.

sometimes there's nothing more important than a warm gesture and welcoming kindness.