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Breelynn

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Here's the story...
Vincent and I have known each other for years, we have always liked each other. I let my guard down and fell for him completely. One problem : I am a christian and he had and still has no desire to be one. I told him constantly that I couldn't be with him because of that and because when i am around him i think things i shouldn't and want to do things i shouldn't. & so i tried my hardest to resist every temptation to be with him.
Recently He decided to find someone else to be with. I knew it was coming and I know it's for the best but it still hurts so much to even think of him. I asked him if we could be friends as i always have wanted and he said no. so now I've lost my best friend and the only guy i have ever felt something for. I try so hard to forget every memory but it's impossible, and i don't know how to deal or cope. I have faith that things will get better but at the moment I'm crushed.
 
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Rheod

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When God closes a door he opens a window. God will not take something from you for no reason while typing this I feel like you will find something out about him.
 
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Rheod

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God wanted your heart to learn to beat romantic emotion. There's someone who you will meet soon. Who will be right (this is God soon not my soon)
 
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Jullianna

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I'm sorry you're hurting, Breelyn. So many of us have found ourselves there and know how badly it hurts.

From your post, it's clear that his influence was damaging your walk with the Lord, so please be grateful that you are still walking with God. When we go through things like this, the most healing thing we can do is to just let God wrap His arms around us. Give the time to the things of God that you were giving to the guy. Something amazing will come of it and before you know it, your heart will be healed. :)
 
zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

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So what will happen if every guy you fall for isn't a christian?

What I'm saying is, don't misundertsand this scripture:

Do not be bound (yoked) together with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness?
2 Corinthians 6:12

Many Christians equate that with forbidding people to enter a relationship with a non-christian. That is NOT what Paul meant. If you read the entire context of that scripture you will see he is talking about the Corinthians cutting themselves off from the Christian church and joining the worshippers of Belial. The key word is UNEQUALLY. Do not be unequally yoked, in other words, stay away from those who might cause you to abandon your faith. If your faith is strong, you should be ok in a relationship with an unbeliever.
 
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jonnoboy

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Wow that sucks sorry for your loss their, I can uderstand a little where ur coming from but i just agree with the others God has a plan and that is simple proof that it just wasnt to be... You are probably fed up of this sort of reaction but God Willing there will be a even better guy out there for ya just pray for it !
God bless

Jonno
 
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EverlastingChange

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The LORD is close to the brokenhearted; he rescues those whose spirits are crushed. - Psalms 34:18


Trust in him, be diligent in prayer and he WILL rebuild you. For The Lord Our God says he makes all things work together for our own good. After this struggle has ceased you will stand stronger and firmer than before for through great endurance comes a greater faith. Keep your eyes on Jesus. :)
 
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Jullianna

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Amen, EverlastingChange
 
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Breelynn

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Thank you everyone :)
 
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