All i want

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GOP

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All I want more than anything in this world to be a wife and mother. I've been single for almost 2 years and I've been dealing with a lot of things my ex did. He was extremely mentally abusive. I'm ready for love, commitment and a family. I'm scared it'll never happen. Pray for me.
Peace be with you in JESUS' NAME.
Good morning Sis.
You are lovely welcome here on CC.
If you are still holding any grudges against your ex, you need to let it go that is, you need to forgive him from your heart. Then take away the evil thought of fear that scared you that you will never be a wife and a mother. You have to do this because as a man(/woman) thinketh so shall he (/she) be. Say, "In the Name of JESUS, I command the fear that I will never be a wife and mother out of me. I refused to be afraid of anything. All things are mine in Christ Jesus. I am a lovely wife and mother. Thank You LORD." Keep on declaring this in faith; and experience the Truthfulness of GOD'S Word.
JESUS IS LORD.
 
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La_Vie_En_Rose

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La_Vie_En_Rose: You didn't sound like a jerk to me. I'm just concerned that you might be setting yourself up for a fall. "If I drop the weight I will easily find a husband" can crash really hard when you reach the weight you think should be the threshold, but you don't land a husband.

But if you are certain that's all there is to it... go for it! :cool:
Yes, I know that is all there is to it. I have known women who have lost the weight and went wild because they had so much male attention and became promiscuous. I am afraid of this happening to me, being fat keeps you insulated from sexual temptation. I take no pride in being pure, I simply have not had the opportunity. Having the opportunity is frightening because I am not very good at self control. Anyway, I have seen this scenario happen to girls and women.
 

Lynx

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Actually that makes a lot of sense. I have never had a credit card before, and for the same reason - if I did have one, I would probably max it out. I know myself too well to think I would not.
 

melita916

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Aug 12, 2011
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Sundaymorning, i know waiting can be difficult. I believe what helps is having an active life. what things do you like to do? what hobbies do you have? are you involved with a local assembly?
 

grace4ever

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Dear Sister in Christ, SundayMorning, I am so sorry you are dealing with such a difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, venting, and asking for advice. In despite of this situation let me tell you that you are important, valuable person and you are a person worth of dignity and respect. If God imprinted these desires in your heart, He will put the right man in your path. Christian counseling or therapy can be helpful to work through things like this. You are valuable and worth fighting for. Please do not give up, there’s hope even in the darkest moments of our lives. Maybe you can take out good of this situation that you have to deal with. Have you consider to forgive your ex boyfriend, situations and yourself? Forgiveness does not mean that he is doing right or these things did not happen to you. Forgiveness means that you let the problem go. Forgiveness is the first step of healing and change and It will restore your joy and peace. I encourage you to pray for your ex and for the man that God will put in your path. I encourage you do not consent those fears in your heart and take authority in this way: Spirit of fears, I bind you and I command you to leave me in Jesus Name. Amen. I’d like to share with you this verse from Jeremiah: For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers our Sister in Christ.


Dear Sister in Christ, SundayMorning, I am so sorry you are dealing with such a difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, venting, and asking for advice. In despite of this situation let me tell you that you are important, valuable person and you are a person worth of dignity and respect. If God imprinted these desires in your heart, He will put the right man in your path. Christian counseling or therapy can be helpful to work through things like this. You are valuable and worth fighting for. Please do not give up, there’s hope even in the darkest moments of our lives. Maybe you can take out good of this situation that you have to deal with. Have you consider to forgive your ex boyfriend, situations and yourself? Forgiveness does not mean that he is doing right or these things did not happen to you. Forgiveness means that you let the problem go. Forgiveness is the first step of healing and change and It will restore your joy and peace. I encourage you to pray for your ex and for the man that God will put in your path. I encourage you do not consent those fears in your heart and take authority in this way: Spirit of fears, I bind you and I command you to leave me in Jesus Name. Amen. I’d like to share with you this verse from Jeremiah: For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers our Sister in Christ.