It may actually matter whom makes the sandwiches. .....
are they poisoned, made with love and care and goodness, did some one dislike you make sandwhich and spit in it....
I am against child marriage and arranging children to marriage as they are to young and arguing "shes an old soul" does not make it any better in my view.
Marrying a child and having the sex with her is not good and parents arranging it one may wonder if they are the real parents or if they may not have been from start and maybe sold her for camels or money.
The final decision should still be with the party whom marry each other.
As far as appearances go and attraction , one may worry what if i am not attracted to spouse i marry.
Specially for muslims cover and not see who they married till the marriage is over.
If he/she has huge wart on nose...that can be removed unless you have taste that finds that sexy and attractive.
If you were not attracted to your spouse physically and they also are poor on inner beauty you can pray to God.
Maybe miracle happen and they become nice. :0
They may even be a really cruel bad person whom you married and were "arranged" and set with.
One should have clear "nups" before marriage i do beleive this.
Both party know where stand in regards to...
Also simple thing such as "care nup" so if souse rich and dieing and the other one laughs and happy to not care which indicates poor choice in partner whom did not improve morals despite prayer for them.
I would welcome arranged marriage but those marrying should have a say and "final word" if they agree and also no laws broken.