As singles and Aged,What will you do If GOD said you should wait for your right time!

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coby

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#21
#21
sydlit said:
I guess I'll have to do what I always do...
Kick and scream, shout and pout,
throw a temper tantrum and a pity party
and complain, complain, complain.

After that, what choice do I have?
GOD's gonna do what He wants to do.
If He wants me to remain single, lonely, and miserable,
like I've been my whole life, who am I to argue
with the all-powerful creator of the universe?

I've tried to let it be known that I'm a decent,
bible believing 'christian' guy who just wants to know
what it's like to love and be loved by someone decent in return.
So what I don't have relationship experience...Big Deal!
From what I keep hearing, that doesn't amount to much
but fights, regrets, jealousy, misunderstanding, etc.
Hey, I obviously don't have any STDs either, or kids.
I have enough money and stability to sustain,
and though unforseen things can happen
to cause rapid change for the worse,
blessings can come to bring major change
for the better, too, and with God, all things are possible,
so what's wrong with believing?

I may not be HandsomeHunkHarry, but I'm not the ugliest worm that ever crawled, either. I won't go any further on all this now,
while the 'this ain't a dating site selective thought police'
are lurking, but as stated, I don't know what I can do
to change God's mind and allow me to know what
TRUE love is, but I'm not sure what the hold-up is either.
I guess because I'm not perfect, someone will always
find faults and reasons to put me down and reject me,
and there doesn't seem to be anything
that can be done about that. I keep waiting, I keep trying,
I'm available, but women seem to know what they want,
and I guess I can't live up to the standards or demands.
I guess it's a tale of 3 wills... Mine, (I'm open), ...
Hers, (whatever she wants) ...
And God's, (I have no idea).
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Lol you also throw pity parties? I threw a pity party on two other forums and one on Facebook. You should throw them in the open. It works according to Fonzie.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Lo5eswhvV7E
 
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coby

Guest
#22
#22
ministerAKA89 said:
How will you really know GOD'S time for your right time? you can support your answer scripturally if need be.
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Well just ask Him. When I was 18 I had to have a guy. I was quite nuts at the time so I threw
dices: 1 was one year etc. Or I would throw the Bible open and ask God: does he come next week? And then I would read a yes. Lol at last I asked my mom to ask a guy who gave everyone prophecies and I said to God: Just tell me when he comes.
So I got a prophecy typed out for me from that man. It said:
This I hope that I and Our relationship on earth will come on the first place for you. It was an idol for me. I was not ready at all.
When I gave up totally with 24 and only prayed: God I want someone but that's just to let You know. I gave up. Then he just came in the same church and asked me out. We had so much problems because we both weren't healed up.
Recently with New Years Eve I was all alone and so mad at God. He just asked God for a new wife and whoopie he gets the best one ever. They never have fights or anything. As if it was only my fault that we divorced. So after being mad at Him for a while for being unwilling LOL I just spent time with Him for hours and the next morning I got a dream. Prince on a white horse, serious, it was Jesus, but I didn't see His Face. I said: If I see Your Face You only want me to marry You and You have noone.
A few years back I also had such a romantic dream of Him and me on a sailship. I don't care when a man comes. He is everything. He knows best. He wants to spare me another heartache. If I feel lonely I ask Him for a hug. I want to be totally healed up before I date someone and have Him first, otherwise it will become a disaster. Derek Prince has a good teaching on it on youtube. God is a Matchmaker, about that God wants you to have someone. It was His idea.
 
Tinkerbell725

Tinkerbell725

Senior Member
#23
Jul 19, 2014
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#23
sydlit said:
I guess I'll have to do what I always do...
Kick and scream, shout and pout,
throw a temper tantrum and a pity party
and complain, complain, complain.

After that, what choice do I have?
GOD's gonna do what He wants to do.
If He wants me to remain single, lonely, and miserable,
like I've been my whole life, who am I to argue
with the all-powerful creator of the universe?

I've tried to let it be known that I'm a decent,
bible believing 'christian' guy who just wants to know
what it's like to love and be loved by someone decent in return.
So what I don't have relationship experience...Big Deal!
From what I keep hearing, that doesn't amount to much
but fights, regrets, jealousy, misunderstanding, etc.
Hey, I obviously don't have any STDs either, or kids.
I have enough money and stability to sustain,
and though unforseen things can happen
to cause rapid change for the worse,
blessings can come to bring major change
for the better, too, and with God, all things are possible,
so what's wrong with believing?

I may not be HandsomeHunkHarry, but I'm not the ugliest worm that ever crawled, either. I won't go any further on all this now,
while the 'this ain't a dating site selective thought police'
are lurking, but as stated, I don't know what I can do
to change God's mind and allow me to know what
TRUE love is, but I'm not sure what the hold-up is either.
I guess because I'm not perfect, someone will always
find faults and reasons to put me down and reject me,
and there doesn't seem to be anything
that can be done about that. I keep waiting, I keep trying,
I'm available, but women seem to know what they want,
and I guess I can't live up to the standards or demands.
I guess it's a tale of 3 wills... Mine, (I'm open), ...
Hers, (whatever she wants) ...
And God's, (I have no idea).
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That convergence of the three wills will take a miracle. And miracles happen everyday so cheer up.
 
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ministerAKA89

Guest
#24
#24
Nice one, Thanks.
 
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jeremyPJ

Guest
#26
#26
to answer the title question that started this post- If God told me that, I'd listen and plan appropriately. He has a plan for us all.

When we try to 'wing it", we learn something important.
 
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