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True. .... and then when they are frat boys in college... and then when they are buds out of school.... and then when they're working in the office tower and get a chance to escape politically correct rules. In fact, I think feminists might have actually been on to something when they said "men are pigs!"
But I have something to say that has become perfectly clear to me in the past week regarding christian chat.... apparently there are many of you who live in isolated christian communities and there are others of us who are completely down in it. Sorry that I have distressed you but from my side I really haven't done anything. Besides it seems the isolated christians are the ones always giving me lectures on here of biblical verses of being tolerant of everyone and everything. You should come on out and swim with me in it and see what you're getting. (By the way, who's the judgemental person playing God on here giving me my "power rating" in the negatives? I suppose I'm being judged still for making snide remarks about how "thou shall not judge" is implemented by present day "christians".)
Back to topic...
Okay, so apparently women don't know how to get rid of men so they try various strategies. Are the men in need of this? No doubt, some. Are some of these strategies likely to back fire? Absolutely.
Am I an expert on this? No. Am I confused? Well of course, its so strange to me that all of these complete jerks you're all talking about suddenly become "complete gentlemen" that would never think the way I say men do. Yeah, I know, I'M the pervert but some guy thought he was going to "hook up" and then kept going despite being told no umpteen times. Can't say I've ever been in that guy's shoes even if I suspect how he's thinking.
But I have something to say that has become perfectly clear to me in the past week regarding christian chat.... apparently there are many of you who live in isolated christian communities and there are others of us who are completely down in it. Sorry that I have distressed you but from my side I really haven't done anything. Besides it seems the isolated christians are the ones always giving me lectures on here of biblical verses of being tolerant of everyone and everything. You should come on out and swim with me in it and see what you're getting. (By the way, who's the judgemental person playing God on here giving me my "power rating" in the negatives? I suppose I'm being judged still for making snide remarks about how "thou shall not judge" is implemented by present day "christians".)
Back to topic...
Okay, so apparently women don't know how to get rid of men so they try various strategies. Are the men in need of this? No doubt, some. Are some of these strategies likely to back fire? Absolutely.
Am I an expert on this? No. Am I confused? Well of course, its so strange to me that all of these complete jerks you're all talking about suddenly become "complete gentlemen" that would never think the way I say men do. Yeah, I know, I'M the pervert but some guy thought he was going to "hook up" and then kept going despite being told no umpteen times. Can't say I've ever been in that guy's shoes even if I suspect how he's thinking.
I wasn't a christian until 5 years ago. I know what its like growing up in secular society. I'm not a virgin either. All my friends were either atheist or agnostic (and all were caucasian). Its true that some guys take a long time to get beyond that way of thinking but you can't imply that all guys think like that.Thats just not true. Me and my friends would sometimes joke about stuff in that way, but I never knew anyone who would sexualize stuff women did in their minds like that except when I was in my high school cafeteria and we were watching a girl licking an ice cream cone or something.
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Yeah, the guy has been constantly texting me now. I've had over 50 texts in 2 hours... and he just called my phone for the 7th time today. He left a 5 minute message on my voice mail telling me he's in love with me.
I DON'T EVEN KNOW THIS GUY! !!!!
I'm blocking his number... and tearing my so called friend a new one.... No more being freakin' set up.....
I DON'T EVEN KNOW THIS GUY! !!!!
I'm blocking his number... and tearing my so called friend a new one.... No more being freakin' set up.....
Well I am so sorry for you because this is such an extreme case. Those of us that give advise anywhere on here do such with limited information to start with so we don't ever truly know the whole situation. I suggest now that you take any and every precaution to get rid of this guy. Tell him you want nothing to do with him (which you probably already did) and then cut all communications. I'm sure others know better how to deal with a bonafide stalker and this is the last I can really tell you as it is beyond my expertise. I am only used to mildly annoying people and not anyone this persistant and I suspect many others commenting on this thread assumed a much less severe case.
If he is really calling you then that is phone harrassment which needs to be reported the the police. If he calls again tell him to stop contacting you. Save the voicemails and the call log and file a police report.
If the situation gets more severe you will have the police report as evidence.
If you dont take action now then it could very well get worse. Do something about it.
If the situation gets more severe you will have the police report as evidence.
If you dont take action now then it could very well get worse. Do something about it.
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I ended up blocking his number. The wonderful situation here is my friend brought him to my work. So he knows exactly where I work. If he shows up I'm going to tell him to leave.
I told him flat out to leave me alone. He's not taking no for an answer. My friend (who is not going to be my friend much longer) tries justifying his actions because it's "Love at first sight" and that's why he's acting all "crazy". It's not love, it's lust. When I talked to him at one point he said I was beautiful. I smiled and said "Thank you, but you do know looks fade." he laughed and said "Well, with the kind of money I make, you can get plastic surgery!"... Yeah... I forced a laugh and said "Great! I'll be a redhead Barbie!" and he said "That'd be even sexier!"...
He recently left me a 3 minute voice mail telling me how he loves me and how he has a passion of 1,000 suns to make me the woman I want to be, and he can fill my sexual desires... it was really creepy. I let my mom listen to it and she gave me this "Wow.... Craaaaaazy!" look.
When I got that phone call I called my friend and yelled at her. Telling her that she should've known better then to try to set me up and that he's not taking no for an answer and that I will block his number if I have to. (And I did). All she did was try to back him up for being crazy.... When I hung up I decided I no longer wished to be friends with her... I'm not putting up with any of this. My best friend, Tim, and the guy that I am currently interested in both told me to totally ignore Riker. Bad attention is better than no attention. So therefore, I cut it at the root. I ignored his calls (7 in 45 minutes) and texts (50... in 45 minutes...) until I got home and had my dad help me figure out how to block his number.
So, for now... the drama has stopped... but if it gets any worse... I'm bringing the cops in.
I told him flat out to leave me alone. He's not taking no for an answer. My friend (who is not going to be my friend much longer) tries justifying his actions because it's "Love at first sight" and that's why he's acting all "crazy". It's not love, it's lust. When I talked to him at one point he said I was beautiful. I smiled and said "Thank you, but you do know looks fade." he laughed and said "Well, with the kind of money I make, you can get plastic surgery!"... Yeah... I forced a laugh and said "Great! I'll be a redhead Barbie!" and he said "That'd be even sexier!"...
He recently left me a 3 minute voice mail telling me how he loves me and how he has a passion of 1,000 suns to make me the woman I want to be, and he can fill my sexual desires... it was really creepy. I let my mom listen to it and she gave me this "Wow.... Craaaaaazy!" look.
When I got that phone call I called my friend and yelled at her. Telling her that she should've known better then to try to set me up and that he's not taking no for an answer and that I will block his number if I have to. (And I did). All she did was try to back him up for being crazy.... When I hung up I decided I no longer wished to be friends with her... I'm not putting up with any of this. My best friend, Tim, and the guy that I am currently interested in both told me to totally ignore Riker. Bad attention is better than no attention. So therefore, I cut it at the root. I ignored his calls (7 in 45 minutes) and texts (50... in 45 minutes...) until I got home and had my dad help me figure out how to block his number.
So, for now... the drama has stopped... but if it gets any worse... I'm bringing the cops in.
But I'm sorry you ever had to meet this guy. Maybe you should buy some mace or a stun gun and try it out on him next time you see him. Tell him first of course! ....or not. 