... yeah, all the more foolish decision and expectation of the consequences - Count the cost - it's still their fault
ok this is a little harsh - but Count the cost of the decision - and if you can't do that - your not mature enough for marriage. - it takes 2 to tango, fault in a divorce always lies with both people - the degree and how much that might be different.
Marriage is serious business to God and isn't some flippant thing - it is supposed to be a picture of Christ and the Church - the Gospel - why else is marriage attacked the way it is