Court me, Court me Not..

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Live4Him3

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So... Girls... Which of you lucky ladies would like to be courted by either of us handsome and friendly guys? :sneaky::giggle:

Yeah, I guess I'll stay single.
Hey, I'm starting to look good by comparison...lol.
 

Lynx

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Hey, I'm starting to look good by comparison...lol.
Better work fast and make the most of it. Winter is coming with hibernation.

Or are you one of those radical young bears who reject the old ways and try to load up on coffee and energy drinks to keep hibernation at bay?
 

Live4Him3

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Better work fast and make the most of it. Winter is coming with hibernation.

Or are you one of those radical young bears who reject the old ways and try to load up on coffee and energy drinks to keep hibernation at bay?
Sometimes I wish that I could go to sleep and wake up a few months later.

Definitely not a coffee or energy drink guy. In fact, I cut out all caffeine 34 years ago.

Anyhow, I've recently met a woman who really likes me a lot (poor thing), but I'm taking things really slow.

We'll eventually meet in person, but probably not until some time in October.
 

Live4Him3

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I'd want to be friends first. I don't just want the fluff, I want the buddy first, honest conversations that are enjoyable, where sharing and listening happen, and hopefully lots of laughter shared.
I couldn't agree more.

In fact, that's almost exactly what I told the woman who I recently met just yesterday.

Slow and steady wins the race...
 

Lanolin

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what do people actually do when they court?

Play tennis?
Cos I dont have much idea how different it would be to just normal dating. Or is courtship more of a 'I have to win you over' sort of thing like one plays hard to get while the other keeps smashing that ball.

I dunno. I think Id just prefer a friendly match which ends when everyones too tired to play anymore and then just have a cool drink or something.