Lately I haven't cried the lately being a lot of years, early in my life my Mom died when I was 8 and would cry when people mentioned her name. My Dad died when I was 12 I handled that a little better but still cried, my divorce brought more tears, pets dying, feeling unworthy of God's grace, but other than a movie or a touching story, life event or chopping an onion I haven't cried for many years.
I feel the last third of my life has been a lot better than the first 2/3rds. Don't know if that means I have toughened up or just learned to live with what life has been throwing at me as an older person. But the one think I know is that I have chosen to be happy most all of my life as I believe happiness is a choice.