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i forgot the word "much." Should not date much before marriage. 
It gives "friends", family, and others who can potentially be a problem with the two of you dating, more time to do their damage. Let's face it, there's always someone out there who doesn't have our best intentions in mind.
Two are supposed to become one, in Christ. More time nowadays could be a bad thing, especially for older daters who already have a good understanding about life. As in the ability to use good judgment in their choice, and that "sixth sense" of knowing it does, or doesn't feel right.
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Secular, you have said a point, 'Marriage is for two persons who have to learn to be ONE", I always tell myself if we were to choose to rely on God's words we could lived awesome life.
Because Jesus had known this but as always he blinded us, how could we see his ways? because we could be saved. In the bible he said, " when a man and his wife become ones, they leave their family ( dad and momma) to start their own family. Funny thing, you will meet with crap in marriage, I am not happy with this things either.
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And that will be impossible, imagine you are making him your friend without telling him that you are into him, then you are declaring that you are fine for anyone who will take this person. OMG... if you profess to him, you will have to deal with two things if you are unlucky, have sexual relationship or leave him ( and it depends, perhaps you are not much into him), if you are lucky that is good, but remember some are so disgusting they won't tell you and they will cheat, choice is yours. Have not you heard some people call others as dumb ass? very insulting word.
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Ha Ha Ha, ray you remind me when I was just a young girl, I used to tell myself when the time for marriage come I will accept every proposal but I will select only who answer correct my questions. If you want to know your future spouse why don't you do an interview with them rather than going out while knowing in your mind that she is your girlfriend who she is in probation period, then three month is fine to put a ring on her finger, otherwise you are wasting her time. What else do you want to know from her, read 1corinthians 13, at least this line change my whole thought about marriage.
In my office there was a guy, since I started to attend the office seemed attracted to me but I was totally like no he might be the wrong guy. One day he wanted to take me some snaps, I think for facebook may be and I said no don't take me any photo( I never told him that I was into him, instead I ignore his request and treat him as good as other co workers), then I ask why are you late to marry, he replied, because I was "waiting for you", I laughed at his words and told him you are a liar, If you really wanted to marry you could have married and stop using me as an excuse. I feel inside me that his answer was wrong he should probably think than answering a well known phrase. For he should have said that, I did not get a person to marry, once I saw you I knew you are my destiny and prayed to meet you.
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