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It really depends what the guy's intentions or expectations are. If he wants to go on a date to just get to know you better, then that is ok as long as he clearly communicates his intentions. Maybe you both need to talk it out before you go out on a date?
If he wants more than you are willing to commit to, then you have to let him know that. And also decide what you both want in the relationship with each other whether just friendship or to venture into a romantic relationship. Another tip that I follow is that I will not become intimate with a woman beyond the level I am willing to commit to them. In my opinion this is the best way of doing things because if it is broken off, people don't get hurt nearly as much. If you both decide at some point to commit to pursuing each other for more than friendship, then obviously the intimacy level should increase to the level of collective commitment to each other.
Another tip: You should never allow the action of another person to dictate how you react. You can go on date with them as long as you decide ahead of time what you will do if they want more than you are willing to commit to. Create a plan in your head of how you want to handle a conflict of interest in the most gentle yet extremely clear way you possibly can. Go on dates with a plan of what to do, so you don't have to worry about it, and still have fun regardless of what the other person does.
Blessings,
Machew
If he wants more than you are willing to commit to, then you have to let him know that. And also decide what you both want in the relationship with each other whether just friendship or to venture into a romantic relationship. Another tip that I follow is that I will not become intimate with a woman beyond the level I am willing to commit to them. In my opinion this is the best way of doing things because if it is broken off, people don't get hurt nearly as much. If you both decide at some point to commit to pursuing each other for more than friendship, then obviously the intimacy level should increase to the level of collective commitment to each other.
Another tip: You should never allow the action of another person to dictate how you react. You can go on date with them as long as you decide ahead of time what you will do if they want more than you are willing to commit to. Create a plan in your head of how you want to handle a conflict of interest in the most gentle yet extremely clear way you possibly can. Go on dates with a plan of what to do, so you don't have to worry about it, and still have fun regardless of what the other person does.
Blessings,
Machew
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