Smoker, I dislike the thought of smelling like smoke did my whole childhood (I didn't smoke mother and stepfather did.) I don't mind drinking but don't be a drunk. A drink once in a while is alright. But another factor is someone who talks more than I do, encounter at work made me realize this...My energy got drained too much. I talk a lot, but this was more than I talk. Finally, you can't not be quiet, you have to speak up in my family since we are bunch of loud mouths. (We are the ones who are louder than the crying babies in a restaurant.)