R there decent guys out there? yes. The question is...are there decent women out there that don't want to just be your friend? Or if they just want to be with b/c the man has money, or is popular..The question should be, are there any decent ladies out there that aren't just looking for friends that are guys who are for the Lord. Can you say frustrating!?!? If a woman could explain that one to me, I'd greatly appreciate it.