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I think as your attitude changed in this thread, people will soon be against you. No one likes to be bullied or abused.
I'm sorry you felt like you were attacked. i can understand from the first couple of posts, it's normal to feel attacked or in a way, rejected for an idea you had for a thread.
However, people continued to explain in a more loving and gracious way, and your attitude just changed. I'm not even a part of it and wasn't even going to respond until I saw you calling people that I actually CARE about "idiots." And this is where I step in....they aren't idiots, they aren't hateful. The only person I see being hateful is you right now.
I understand your feelings were hurt, but Aya....look at all the troubles of this world and you're getting angry at a thread, a thread that will soon be forgotten in a year or 5 years. I think everyone has to take a step back out of their situation and look at it and ask yourself, "Is this really something to get worked up over?"
You aren't stupid, you aren't an idiot...and neither are we. You are loved, but the thing is: When you push off an aroma as someone who already feels rejected, you start acting like a rejected person....and it's not usually becoming. People will soon treat you as a rejected person because you yourself treats yourself as a rejected person.
I'm sorry you felt like you were attacked. i can understand from the first couple of posts, it's normal to feel attacked or in a way, rejected for an idea you had for a thread.
However, people continued to explain in a more loving and gracious way, and your attitude just changed. I'm not even a part of it and wasn't even going to respond until I saw you calling people that I actually CARE about "idiots." And this is where I step in....they aren't idiots, they aren't hateful. The only person I see being hateful is you right now.
I understand your feelings were hurt, but Aya....look at all the troubles of this world and you're getting angry at a thread, a thread that will soon be forgotten in a year or 5 years. I think everyone has to take a step back out of their situation and look at it and ask yourself, "Is this really something to get worked up over?"
You aren't stupid, you aren't an idiot...and neither are we. You are loved, but the thing is: When you push off an aroma as someone who already feels rejected, you start acting like a rejected person....and it's not usually becoming. People will soon treat you as a rejected person because you yourself treats yourself as a rejected person.
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I think it's weird that you want to have people rehash their potentially negative or painful past relationships or breakups. Or open a platform for people to publicly speak ill of their ex's. That you don't understand this and think it's weird don't see the good in this baffles me.
And no one said you had no right to start it did they? No. That was not said. So don't play a martyr. It was just said it was a bad idea.
And no one said you had no right to start it did they? No. That was not said. So don't play a martyr. It was just said it was a bad idea.
Let those who want to express themselves about their ex do so. Why are you judging a thread if you don't want to express yourself. Aya is not forcing you to post here anyway. Why do we need to be bitter about exes? We shared happy memories with them before. Some things are just not meant to be. It's all about acceptance. But what aya said was below the belt. Maybe she is just hurting because of an ex and the replies here upset her more. Calm down Aya, your thread is good. Better than those thread that talk about sex toys, etc.
