Do feel that being a virgin, is the cause for your singleness?

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iTOREtheSKY

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I have nothing but respect for Virgins! Anyone that is born in the month of September should be celebrated, not shunned.

Oh wait, those are Virgos! Nevermind!!!
Hey cool...I was born in the month of Sept so..I...umm...er....ohhhhhh......BUT WAIT A COTTON PICKIN' MINUTE...I am a Libra. or is it Librarian? Libertarian? Lithuanian? I got scales 'O justice & I be rockin' the blindfold of truth mah babies!
 
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Tintin

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You forgot Lovecrafitan.

Hey cool...I was born in the month of Sept so..I...umm...er....ohhhhhh......BUT WAIT A COTTON PICKIN' MINUTE...I am a Libra. or is it Librarian? Libertarian? Lithuanian? I got scales 'O justice & I be rockin' the blindfold of truth mah babies!
 

CatHerder

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Being a virgin is great! In fact, most people who are not virgins used to be one at one time. :)
 
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If anything, your virginity should be a highly valued asset, never ever a negative!
 
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gia

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This is going to sound shallow, but I honestly think that if you ditch the glasses, shave the beard, and get a better haircut you will have more success! Thankfully those are all things you can change but I think it will help you shave the "loveable teddy bear" image. Try a look that's a little more edgy, it can make a huge difference. I really don't like beards, I think they make guys look like a chia pet lol I'm just being honest... and most of my friends don't like them either. It adds like 10 years


haha Lol a Chia pet! I dont like Chia pets because every sense they made their commercial everyone always call me gia pet haha.
 

maxwel

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haha Lol a Chia pet! I dont like Chia pets because every sense they made their commercial everyone always call me gia pet haha.
Some women LOVE LOVE LOVE beards and facial hair.
Others HATE it.

So I say to men out there,
if you need to express your inner chia pet... then do what you have to do.

: )
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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Some women LOVE LOVE LOVE beards and facial hair.
Others HATE it.

So I say to men out there,
if you need to express your inner chia pet... then do what you have to do.

: )
Some guys it suits & it's just them...other's like myself who would try & grow facial hair,look ridiculous. lol
 
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aspiringdoc21

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No I don't think so, but then again it could be. I know that God has someone out there thats just for me and I'm waiting patiently on Him. 624045_814565079_1307780603_n.jpg
 

Jilly81

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Hey cool...I was born in the month of Sept so..I...umm...er....ohhhhhh......BUT WAIT A COTTON PICKIN' MINUTE...I am a Libra. or is it Librarian? Libertarian? Lithuanian? I got scales 'O justice & I be rockin' the blindfold of truth mah babies!

Jim, quit being silly. It means you're a Lutheran.
 
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gia

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Some women LOVE LOVE LOVE beards and facial hair.
Others HATE it.

So I say to men out there,
if you need to express your inner chia pet... then do what you have to do.

: )
oh well I'm talking about the actual chia pet plants..grrr how don't like those things. Everyday people call me G-G-Gia pet! Haha :D. Now as for a beard on man, I find it very attractive :)
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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oh well I'm talking about the actual chia pet plants..grrr how don't like those things. Everyday people call me G-G-Gia pet! Haha :D. Now as for a beard on man, I find it very attractive :)
LOLz...I think I just heard a thousand men's razors all across CC fall into the wastebasket.
 
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MatthewMichael

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Gia,

I'm 29/m. I lost my virginity at 20 because I caved in to the world, and it cost me many years of wasted time and heartache. Stay strong.

If men run the other way, it's because they just wanted to sleep with you.

If the men you're dating aren't abstinent, they are not practicing Christians. 1 Corinthians 2:14 tells us that worldy people
do no understand the things that come from the spirit. They mistake kindness and humility for weakness. Worldy women want wordly men and vice versa. They are never satisfied though because they only think they want that because they do not have the spirit.

The cause of your singleness is that you are doing the right thing. Stay strong. A virgin is the most desirable type of female. When people lose their virginity, they decide they are the "choosers". They then have sex with multiple partners saying after awhile, "well, I liked this person, but I can't deal with this or that trait.. So I'll find someone new." They lose sight of love. It is sad, but watch your promiscuous friends, if you have any, over time, and you will see that they are never content.

-Matt
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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I would like to clarify that I am in fact not "in love" with Jilly,but loved her post. LOL I don't want there to be any rumors of love...well you know how people are. LOL Ok..carry on.:p
 

Fenner

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At my "old" age,I just want to cuddle. :) (hey,don't judge me...cuddling can be very satisfying)

I just want to sleep. It usually takes stories , books and coaxing to get my daughter to sleep. Then it's usually up and down putting her back to bed. She exhausts me.