Normally break ups don't end well. Albeit because the couple had a falling out. Or because the two tried to be friends, but it made matters worse.. the latter happened a few months back with my ex. Mental health got in the way. Nothing bad was said about the other, though. I was actually told by her family I did nothing wrong, and she had a bunch of issues she had to go through.
I noticed earlier today, though, that I was taken off Facebook. Which surprised me, because we never had a falling out where one person said angry or hurtful things. So this kinda came to mind... If you acknowledge Christ as your Savior, you'll join Him in Heaven. So why is it that a lot of people from marriages and relationships hold onto grudges, when they are going to get reacquainted with these people in Heaven. You can't take grudges into Heaven with you. Even folks that were hurt tremendously, whether it is emotional, mental, or physical. The one that did the damage can still turn to Christ and accept Him. So why do people go on with life trying to remove every little bit of existence, when the next phase is always there in the afterlife? I don't get it.
She has her reasons, obviously. And I'm not angry. I just find it odd and a little sad that after a few months, this happens. Especially with someone that's God fearing. It seems kind of elementary to me. I don't think you'll be getting rid of anyone in Heaven. This isn't God kicking out Lucifer. So can someone shed some insight? Why do folks hold onto grudges or try to move on like nothing happened in relationships, when they're just going to meet again in the afterlife?
I noticed earlier today, though, that I was taken off Facebook. Which surprised me, because we never had a falling out where one person said angry or hurtful things. So this kinda came to mind... If you acknowledge Christ as your Savior, you'll join Him in Heaven. So why is it that a lot of people from marriages and relationships hold onto grudges, when they are going to get reacquainted with these people in Heaven. You can't take grudges into Heaven with you. Even folks that were hurt tremendously, whether it is emotional, mental, or physical. The one that did the damage can still turn to Christ and accept Him. So why do people go on with life trying to remove every little bit of existence, when the next phase is always there in the afterlife? I don't get it.
She has her reasons, obviously. And I'm not angry. I just find it odd and a little sad that after a few months, this happens. Especially with someone that's God fearing. It seems kind of elementary to me. I don't think you'll be getting rid of anyone in Heaven. This isn't God kicking out Lucifer. So can someone shed some insight? Why do folks hold onto grudges or try to move on like nothing happened in relationships, when they're just going to meet again in the afterlife?