when I grow old I dont wanna be a evil hag. I wanna be that one grandma with bright hair, harley and dog on the back known for awesomeness.
I kinda found that this thread went a bit too serious and the answer to all this sex stuff is so easy that I thought Id just give it my mind (tho ive been attacked many times for ''entering adult topics'' as if I have nothing to do with it) and its a fact.. fun fact.. but its a fact. my doc would say '' eat an apple instead, thats healthier". I just like sleeping so naps r my option.
Now Ill get on a more serious note
Its sad that people are afraid to talk and treat sex for what it is. Natural and normal. When God created everything (INCLUDING SEX) and he saw it and said ''its very good" so I dont see where the problem is. He made it good, he finds it good. Just IN marriage. Its a extra credit for marriage, fulfilling the soul bond.
Its healthy as long as its IN marriage. No matter what doctors say, outside of marriage it makes you a target for evil and done. God is God and doctors are not God.
And for me personally there is no talk about '' expressing sex in a healthy way" as its just as God made and healthy under the circumstances God has made just like going to the bathroom or eating.
People fuss about sex because we all have this dogma of the catholic church in the back of our head from generations that holds like a curse and always tries to make us DOUBT what God made and how he made it, rather than accepting its nature and why and how its created.
The devil wants us to doubt Gods creation. He wants us to doubt his purpose. And he gets people everytime with the ''s word with 3 letters''.
Unless people start seeing it as natural as everything else, people cant get free from all the fiasco around it.
God gave us hunger. So when we are hungry, we eat. God gave us thirst so we drink when we are thirsty. Naturally you become attracted to someone and marry them and then end up having sex with them. Its all a God made thing.
Now as hunger can end in sickness and destructive, sex can. Which makes sexual perversion etc just as much as an issue as anorexia, drug addictions, etc. what destroys the temple of the holy Spirit when it gets excessive or unhealthy.
Now thats my 2 cents
I appreciate your wisdom,and your sense of humor. You have the best balance. Love you too sis!!