Feel Like Giving Up..

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HisHolly

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I say selfish bc if you wanted her so you could give to her, time isn't an issue bc it's about her... Bc she's not doing what you want, you want to leave... You're focused on you and you'll always have problems when you want your way
 
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BDay33

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HisHolly said:
I say selfish bc if you wanted her so you could give to her, time isn't an issue bc it's about her... Bc she's not doing what you want, you want to leave... You're focused on you and you'll always have problems when you want your way
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That may be true, but sometimes you have to be selfish. She IS who I want, and she's who I believe God intended for me. I can't be miserable forever, it's not healthy, and it's not fair to me. Also, if she's who God intended for me, how can I screw it up?
 
BruceWayne

BruceWayne

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BDay33 said:
That may be true, but sometimes you have to be selfish. She IS who I want, and she's who I believe God intended for me. I can't be miserable forever, it's not healthy, and it's not fair to me. Also, if she's who God intended for me, how can I screw it up?
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And what has happened isn't fair to her. I know its easy to think about giving up in frustration and when things aren't going super well, but I couldn't imagine throwing 6+ years away. It's only been 3 weeks. If she's open to fixing things and you really love her, then she'll be worth the wait. Trust is not easily rebuilt. Ignore the suggestion to see other girls. Do what it takes to prove yourself and remind her of why you lasted this long. Continue to be there for her. It sounds like she needs that.
 
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crosstweed

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BruceWayne said:
And what has happened isn't fair to her. I know its easy to think about giving up in frustration and when things aren't going super well, but I couldn't imagine throwing 6+ years away. It's only been 3 weeks. If she's open to fixing things and you really love her, then she'll be worth the wait. Trust is not easily rebuilt. Ignore the suggestion to see other girls. Do what it takes to prove yourself and remind her of why you lasted this long. Continue to be there for her. It sounds like she needs that.
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^^^^ This.
 
shineyourlight

shineyourlight

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BruceWayne said:
And what has happened isn't fair to her. I know its easy to think about giving up in frustration and when things aren't going super well, but I couldn't imagine throwing 6+ years away. It's only been 3 weeks. If she's open to fixing things and you really love her, then she'll be worth the wait. Trust is not easily rebuilt. Ignore the suggestion to see other girls. Do what it takes to prove yourself and remind her of why you lasted this long. Continue to be there for her. It sounds like she needs that.
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THIS.

Couldn't have said it better myself.
 
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