Female half of a couple seeking advice

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spunkycat08

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Dec 7, 2013
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The eyes of a man/woman are never satisfied. Always looking to be more happy and something better for them. Marriage is work, and if you doing it to make life easier on yourself.....Good luck. I will say fornication is a sin. So maybe this relationship habit is spiritually toxic. God may be leading her out of sin, but that doesn't necessarily mean to go into another sinful relationship. Does he really not want to get married? Are she sexually active with him? Maybe he is getting ask he needs without marriage. Is he a Christian, or claim to be? A man of God will want to marry his bride. He may not be perfect in all her emotional needs, but should try and for sure should want to be joined to her. The 2 timing is absolutely wrong though.
Because the 2 of them are on government disability, if they get married, they loose their disability checks. So marriage is not an option. Both of them can only work part-time.

Last weekend she spent time alone with the male friend, whom she broke up with to just be friends, at his place. According to the 2 of them she slept overnight on his couch. Then the following morning he took her over to where the male friend whom she wants to date lives as well as other people she knows so she could visit with them. That was when she and the male friend went to a cafe to have coffee.

She has introduced her former boyfriend, now friend to her male friend, but only as a friend.

She still wants to convince her male friend to want to date her by hanging out with him.